Feminism and beauty

Phuoc Anh February 16, 2023 11:48

(Baonghean.vn) - Feminism and beauty rights seem unrelated but are incredibly related. When women put beauty rights above and before, then feminism will naturally go hand in hand.

Recently, to prepare for Tet, in addition to the offerings and ham, sausage, cakes, spring rolls, flowers, fruits..., we cannot forget to buy new clothes. While I was carrying around ao dai, short skirts, coats..., my sister-in-law - a capable woman in the eyes of the whole family, bought exactly 2 sets of clothes to wear at home. "Tet is mainly spent in the kitchen and entertaining guests at home, why be pretty, just dress comfortably" - she said.

My sister-in-law is not a special case. Many women around me think the same way. They go to the kitchen, to the living room, to the bedroom, to the market to buy vegetables, to pick up their children from school... all with just one pair of sweatpants. If it could talk, I would definitely think that sweatpants would react violently, because it has been "exploited" too much. But because it cannot talk, I reluctantly have to become a nosy person, discussing everything from "sweatpants culture" to feminism and beauty rights.

Feminism is a familiar sound! In newspapers, social networks, or on the lips, analysis and commentary, there are many stories surrounding the issue of gender equality, the story of "heroes are not men"... Many people have spoken out to encourage women to rise up, to escape the scene of working day and night with named and unnamed duties, to step out of the stereotype of women in the kitchen to realize many great, grand dreams...

I support feminism (of course!), but I approach it from a different perspective. I do not think that feminism means abandoning traditional roles to wear the broad cloak of modern titles: successful businesswoman, famous CEO, woman of the era… Many people think that feminism is the right… to do men’s work. So why distinguish between men and women? What is the point of women?

Feminism, from a personal perspective, is the right to be yourself. To be yourself, a woman - with enough inner strength that is strong yet flexible, spirited yet delicate, decisive yet thoughtful... You can be a successful woman in your studies and work, and also a mother, a good wife, filial, good at raising children and taking care of your husband, if you want. You can also choose to step back and become a full-time woman with your family, leaving the big world to the shoulders of men, if you want. Or perhaps, you have a strong will to progress, only like and are suitable for being active in work, have enough income to hire a housekeeper, if you want. To be yourself - a woman, holding in your hands the right to choose a way of life that suits you, knowing your own value, that is feminism. Feminism is not about trying to be strong, about being outspoken, feminism - on the contrary, is about returning to the depths within oneself, evoking and honoring the enduring, profound, and ultimate values ​​of feminine nature!

I often imagine and fear the image of a feminist holding a scepter (!), wearing a crown, wearing a vest and leather shoes, chin up as if to prove to the world that women are number one! But I see around me and am even more allergic to the image of women wearing spandex anywhere and anytime, messy hair, slippers, running around like my sister-in-law.

Fear and allergy, because besides feminism, women have forgotten the concept of beauty rights - the right to be beautiful, to be beautiful for themselves, to be beautiful for society. My sister only bought 2 sets of clothes for Tet, but bought enough for her husband and children 3 new outfits from head to toe to wear for 3 days. My sister, unconsciously, put down her beauty rights, took them away, turned her back on them.

Is beauty important? Very important, even more important than feminism. Wear a neat outfit that suits the conditions and circumstances, put on makeup to highlight every feature, if you have perfume, spray it on, if you don’t, take a bath and smell clean so that the scent of a woman’s skin becomes a unique scent, and then you see, that beauty has a miraculous ability and power, overwhelming the feminism that tries to carry it. That’s why our ancestors have concluded: Heroes find it hard to overcome the beauty barrier…

Feminism and beauty are seemingly unrelated, but incredibly related. When women put beauty above and before, then feminism will naturally go hand in hand. When women know how to clean and beautify themselves from the inside, intelligence and appearance, hold their heads high and proudly show off their beauty, then they will naturally know where to place their self-worth. Women, be strong and decisive but also weak and coquettish when needed.

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