Singer Thuy Tien's statement about violence and love causes a 'storm' on the internet
"Be brave enough to leave relationships that are making you feel negative, depressed and skeptical. That's not love," Thuy Tien shared.
In recent days, social networks have been abuzz with a series of news stories revolving around women.Actress Hoang Yen was assaulted by her ex-husbanduntil her nose bled. "Her fourth husband stormed into the shop and punched her until her nose bled. Yen didn't know what to say about this action. She was once her husband. She endured a lot during their time together. Even though she wasn't happy, Yen still shared it here so that you guys could understand and have an objective view," the actress shared.
Currently, the incident is still receiving mixed opinions from the online community. Although it is not clear whether it is right or wrong, the majority of netizens have expressed their disagreement with the act of beating a woman by the ex-lover of actress Hoang Yen. Amidst the noise of the story"Miss Xuyen" in the movie "Come home, my child"Being abused by her ex-husband, singer Thuy Tien suddenly gave her opinion on this issue.
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| Thuy Tien's statement about violence and love causes a "storm" on the internet. |
On her personal page, Thuy Tien shared: "I don't know if everyone thinks like me, but I think that whether you are a lover or a life partner, the most important thing is to respect each other. Only with respect can we understand each other, then we can change together to become better, not giving ourselves the power to force the other person to perceive and think about things the way we want. That is emotional manipulation and psychological abuse.
This concept is not new but very few of us can name and define it.
| Clip of actress Hoang Yen being beaten by her ex-husband until her nose bled. (Source: FBNV) |
According to singer Thuy Tien, many people often mistake daily conflicts, drama in relationships and the other person's control for love, because they love themselves so they do that. "No, they only love themselves so they do that. The person who loves you will always want you to be happy, joyful and be yourself, not in the name of love to be blindly jealous, unreasonably control or make you feel guilty, torment yourself.
If you are in such a relationship, it means you are being mentally abused. Tien has heard many stories like that and is really upset and sympathetic because the person involved does not realize that they are being abused. This violence is very discreet and quiet, it does not leave visible wounds but makes the soul slowly die, leaving a lingering obsession. Especially women, we often think of giving more and are not mentally strong enough, easily manipulated emotionally.
"Be brave enough to leave relationships that are making you feel negative, depressed and skeptical, that's not love! Love is respect, sharing and freedom, abuse is control, manipulation and possession," the singer advised.
Although Cong Vinh’s wife did not directly mention the controversy about actress Hoang Yen, her views on love and violence have attracted the attention of many netizens. Many fans agree with the singer’s views:"I agree with you. In friendship, love or life relationships, if you feel you are not respected, then leave"; "In everyday life, there are still many women who have to live a life that is worse than that"; "Ms. Tien is right, happiness is when both parties respect each other and look in the same direction"...
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| Thuy Tien and Cong Vinh couple always make fans admire for their happy married life. (Photo: FBNV) |
Thuy Tien - Cong Vinh is one of the couples in Vietnamese showbiz with a happy married life that makes fans admire. The two publicly dated in 2004. 10 years later, the Nghe An striker held a wedding ceremony with Thuy Tien. Before that, the two welcomed a daughter named Banh Gao in 2013. After many years of living together, Thuy Tien - Cong Vinh have always accompanied each other in life as well as work and charity activities.
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| Thuy Tien and Cong Vinh's happy and fulfilled family. (Photo: FBNV) |
Sharing the secret to maintaining a happy family, Thuy Tien once humorously revealed that for a happy family, men should... fear their wives. "People often ask us what the secret to maintaining a happy marriage is? In my personal experience, to have a happy marriage, the man, the husband, should fear his wife. But of course, there is a condition that the woman, the wife, must also respect her husband.
"A man who does not fear his wife will never have the courage to overcome so many temptations. Only when he loves her will he be afraid of making his wife sad and hold on to the most important thing in his life - his family. A woman who does not respect her husband will never understand what true happiness is in her whole life," Thuy Tien emphasized.
