Women are to be loved

The catchphrase of modern women is still simply like that. There is absolutely no need to compare women to roses, lilies or any other flowers. Suddenly remembering my friend telling me, when asking his brother what type of woman he likes, he said that women are lovely, why do we need to follow the stereotype?

Back to the saying that sounds like a… slogan: women are meant to be loved. There is no need to trace who first said it. Because if we did, it would be difficult to find the original when a saying has become a catchphrase of not only many boys but also many proud girls. I rarely use popular, manifesto-like sayings in life, but with this particular saying, I sometimes nod in satisfaction.

In front of the school gate of my daughter, I still notice the father wearing a taxi uniform taking his twin daughters to school. Every time I see them, I still see the two little girls chirping like baby birds, taking turns in their father’s embrace, kissing his cheek, and the father also innocently responds with a kiss on the cheek. And they chirp and wave goodbye to their father before holding hands and going to school. The father then hurriedly gets in the car to start his journey to make a living, with a very bright face. Sometimes I smile when I see them performing all the “love rituals”. My day will be gentler when I feel the love of the three of us spreading around me.

One time, by chance, when picking up my daughter from school, I saw a female worker still wearing her uniform, sweating profusely. She stood waiting for her daughter in front of the school gate. In just a few minutes, she wiped the sweat still on her face, combed her hair, and reapplied some lipstick. That image was so natural, lovely, and gentle that it made me smile when I saw it. She seemed hesitant, explaining: "My daughter likes to see her mother wearing lipstick, especially when she goes to pick her up." I remembered when my daughter was in kindergarten, she repeatedly said that she wanted her mother to wear a dress when she went to pick her up because a dress was prettier than wearing clothes. Every little girl wants her mother to look more beautiful. And the worker mother's gesture of beautifying herself every afternoon when picking up her child to please her daughter (even though she rarely wore lipstick at the factory) was extremely adorable.

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A friend of mine wrote a status that shared humorously but very truthfully: If you want a delicious meal, be a husband who brings food home to your wife. If you want your wife to be gentle, know how to say sincere words. If you want a warm family, build it together. Even something as basic as wanting to be a father, give your wife... healthy Willy sperm. Women are the ones who receive, men are the ones who send love.

Women are meant to be loved, and that love always begins and never ends first and foremost within one’s own family. The idea that women depend on their husbands for their happiness and suffering is only valid in the past.

My friend told me that on her wedding day, her father happily told her in-laws, thank you for taking my daughter into your home to love. Whenever you are not satisfied, call me, I will happily take her back to my love. After many ups and downs in life, one day she left her husband to return to her parents' arms. Her father kept his promise, enthusiastically went to pick her up when she announced that she could no longer stay with her husband, could she return to her parents? He did not ask her why when she only said that "the fate has ended". On the day their daughter returned, her parents opened champagne and held a party to celebrate the reunion. My friend is now a happy single mother.

Occasionally, on the news pages there are still news about girls who... marry themselves. They can completely become the most beautiful bride without a groom, the most beautiful princess without a prince on a white horse. Your happiness lies in your own hands, in your own thinking, not in the thoughts or hands of others. Laura Mesi - a beautiful Italian model once answered in a newspaper: "I told my relatives and friends that if I can't find a soulmate, I will marry myself on my 40th birthday". And she generously spent more than 10,000 euros for the big day. Her luxurious wedding party lacked nothing except for not having a groom. The other day, a Japanese actress also married herself because she couldn't find a suitable man, and the main reason was more important: I deserve to be a beautiful bride. Let's not talk about right or wrong in weddings that are missing half, just look at the understanding and love of self-worth that should be appreciated in these strong girls.

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I always tell my daughter that she is the most adorable and lovable girl. If she reads books, listens, learns, and shares with everyone, she will definitely become a good person. Even though sometimes that is still criticized as "I praise my child for singing well", doing that is spoiling and spoiling the child... Her handwriting is still bad, it's okay, just try hard and her writing will be beautiful. Today she doesn't play the piano well, it's okay, it will be fine, just like she found it difficult to learn how to swim before, but now she knows how to swim. Love is expressed in many forms, but it cannot be without sharing and trust. I always think that when I was a child, I liked something, lacked something, or needed something, so I should give my child those sweet things. A little girl needs to grow up in words of love, love; the more specific the sweet words and warm hugs, the better.

And so, when I give love to a little girl, I receive happy days in return. Happy to grow up with my child. Happy to see that I have helped a little girl understand that this beautiful life is full of values: The road to school this morning was filled with the sound of birds even though my house is in a noisy, crowded neighborhood. The flower that I watered every afternoon has bloomed beautifully today to say thank you. The mother just wants to shout out loud with joy because her 6-year-old daughter knows how to swim. Whether I am rich or poor is not as important as we can move forward together... Those things are actually small in this life, but I still believe they are the first bricks to build the foundation of love for a little girl.

At each age, each stage of life, each girl will understand love in a different way. But girl, no matter the situation, remember: Women are to be loved. Okay?