Overnight, I no longer recognized my wife.

“It will be fine after a few days when the swelling goes down. Why are you so upset? Did you get breast augmentation or butt implants?”

I am 35 years old and my wife is 30 years old. She is petite and has a youthful face, but she also complains that at 30, she is getting old. So she constantly beautifies herself, and beautifies herself in every way. On the dressing table, there are all kinds of bottles and jars; from skin care products to lip care products, from sunscreen to anti-aging creams… If converted into money, it is not a small amount, but my wife always says it is not worth much.

I know that women should know how to be beautiful, but to be beautiful and forget about your husband and children like my wife is really heartless. In the morning, my wife doesn't care what her husband and children eat because she is busy putting on makeup to get ready to leave the house, even going to the market early in the morning. For her, when she goes out, she has to be beautiful.

In the evening, after dinner, I have to do the dishes and clean up because her hands are already covered with skin cream. She doesn’t care about how the children study, she just prepares the “tools” to apply facial masks quickly. She doesn’t care how my father and I teach each other. Once I gave my opinion, my wife said that she doesn’t have the ability to teach, so she can’t teach the children. What else can I say?

To be honest, my wife spent a lot of money and effort on it, but I didn't see much difference because her skin was already white. But she always made me compliment her on how whiter and smoother it looked... I reluctantly agreed with her. Not only was my wife crazy about beauty, she also spent a lot of money on shopping: clothes, dresses, shoes, and handbags were everywhere.

On her days off, she doesn't know how to clean the house, doesn't know how to cook fresh food, but only spends time shopping and taking care of her beauty at the spa. It's really annoying her, but if I say anything, she gets angry and says I'm calculating and comparing with my wife. Because the money that my wife spends on her beauty is mostly from my pocket.

Well, if I have a wife who is crazy about beauty, then I have to accept it. But I declare that I can apply whatever I want on my face, but I absolutely cannot have plastic surgery. My wife keeps telling me to rest assured that that will not happen because she is also very afraid of going under the knife. I am reassured by what she said. But somehow, she still quietly went for plastic surgery.

That night, I was in a panic because of my wife. Like every other night, my wife put on a face mask, I was used to seeing her in strange forms. One day her face was black, the next it was white, sometimes it was turmeric-colored, sometimes it was bright red like gac oil… only her eyes and lips were exposed.

But this time I was really startled because my wife had turned off the lights and gone to bed that night. I saw that she was already asleep so I didn't call her anymore. Early in the morning, I woke up with my eyes half-open and I turned to look at my wife. Her face was pale because of some kind of mask, only her lips were swollen from tattooing and her eyebrows were upturned and black because she had just gotten tattooed. I woke up with that fierce look.

I woke my wife up and asked her why she broke her promise. She said she didn’t get breast implants or butt implants, so why did she make such a fuss? “It’ll be fine after a few days, it’ll be fine if it’s not swollen anymore. Why did she make such a fuss? She didn’t get breast implants or butt implants?” That reasoning bored me. The problem is that I like my wife’s natural beauty and don’t like to have it altered. Now when I look at my wife, I think I’m looking at someone else. Her lips are bright red, her eyebrows are raised so high that it’s scary…

Does anyone have a way to make my wife less passionate about beauty and more concerned about her family? Now she has her eyes and lips tattooed, not knowing what will happen next? I'm just afraid that she will be blind and harm her health by doing beauty. How can I make my wife understand that I need someone who knows how to take care of the family and not focus on appearance so that she won't worry about "getting bored and rejected by me in old age"?

According to Women