Que Van: 'I am a madam, my percentage is babies'

- Speaking up about Truong Giang - Nam Em, you must have anticipated the public reaction. Why do you choose the method of "bringing noise every time you come"?

- If it wasn't for Nam Em, I would never have spoken up, and if it wasn't about Truong Giang, I definitely wouldn't have come forward. I've become a monk and a vegetarian. Do you believe it, why would someone like me be jealous?

People say I speak up to polish my name and become more famous? Everyone knows the name Que Van, I don't need more. What's the use of fame, it's just a passing thing, I've spent so many years chasing it, it's taken too much energy. I've given up everything, I'm too tired and have long since retired from the spotlight.

I just want to speak the truth, I don’t need to be famous, I don’t need to make a fuss. Sometimes it’s my fate to make a fuss. It was the same before, many things I didn’t do on purpose, didn’t try to create a scandal but still made a fuss. I can’t avoid gossip.

- Is it trustworthy when a noisy person like Que Van tells the story about Truong Giang?

- Regarding the Truong Giang - Nam Em case, Nam Em is my close friend. And the development of this story happened exactly like my story two years ago.

A real man, he did it and admitted it. But he did not admit it. The public is waiting for Truong Giang to take action because all those stories were against morality and conscience.

He should have apologized, but he didn’t. I think all men are flirts, but don’t live like that without respecting women. Truong Giang is being treated well now, but who knows what he’ll be like in a few years.

- You used to date rich men, why did you make a fuss when you fell in love with Truong Giang?

- I have never been with a rich man. I have no concept of a rich man. My husband is one year younger than me. The story with Truong Giang made me so angry. Truong Giang is too cruel.

Not only Truong Giang, 2 years ago, Truong Giang's brother also said about me "don't let this kid do showbiz anymore". At the program in Hanoi, Truong Giang's side announced that if there is Que Van, there will be no Truong Giang.

At that time, I had to protect myself with audio and video recordings. It was a natural reflex under the pressure of Truong Giang's fans, who were too numerous. But now I'm past that time. 2 years ago, I wanted to reveal my true face because that was my own story. Now, I want to protect a weak person like Nam Em.

- Showbiz is full of gossip, behind the fame there can be just scandals. Que Van used to be a part of that world, is that her nature or has showbiz "spoiled" her?

- Showbiz life is very complicated. If you are a normal person, when something happens, no one will know, but I work in showbiz, no matter what happens to me, everyone knows. There are things that people don't even let me explain and I don't want to explain either.

I cannot go to each person to analyze and help them understand. I am not a court to judge right and wrong. Now that social media has developed, with the mentality of following the crowd, it is even harder to make the majority understand you.

So, I no longer want to appear so as not to repeat the bad reputation I had in showbiz. I want to become a good person.

- The story of rich men and long-legged girls is heating up again. Many "long-legged girls" and rich men said that they used to ask you to introduce them?

- Who are the rich men? Are they old and rich men? I have never loved anyone older than me, my husband is a year younger than me. I don't have a rich man, and I have never received any gifts or money from anyone.

As for my husband, I never depend on him. I live very independently. I always analyze that if I love an older person, they will give me everything, but do I love them?

Or you take people’s money to support a young, handsome man, and give it to another man? If you are a fraud, can you live in peace? If you can live in peace, you are too miserable.

I don't even love a rich man, so how can I introduce him to others? Even if I didn't have money, I could still drive a motorbike taxi. I don't live that miserable life.

I don't like to be jealous of anyone. I love but freely, men who are too deceitful will get a bitter ending, but if we come together because of soulmates, I live sincerely.

- But for a long time, Que Van has always been famous as a showbiz madam?

- I don't hang out with rich men, but if they are successful men, then yes. It's true that I have been a matchmaker, a lot, but it was a matchmaker like "I think you two are compatible, let's date".

I often say that. Is she a madam? Is she a pimp? If so, my commission and percentage are the babies that are born. If I was a matchmaker, I would be in jail right now, not sitting here talking.

- If the matchmaker is innocent, why do people always talk about her with so much doubt?

- Those are the harsh words of society. So now I limit my meetings with other people. When I have free time, I drive to temples, to temples in all the provinces. Whether I am good or bad, let people meet me and feel it most clearly. As for people I don't know, people I have never met, I don't need to convince them.

- Your matchmaking career has been bitter. After you've been a matchmaker, they don't look at you anymore, you get beaten up by jealous people... Why?

- There are misunderstandings. Like the time I was accused of being beaten by a rich man’s wife. The truth was I was selling a feng shui bracelet, then I texted her husband, “Do you want to buy it or not, put down a deposit?” Actually, both husband and wife were friends with me, but the wife still misunderstood. But that’s in the past, the police have already gotten involved.

Honestly, I’m really afraid of women. Today they’re “my dear”, “my dear”, but tomorrow they can kill me. In showbiz, I rarely hang out with women, let alone models. There was a model who said that if she went with me, she would have a rich husband. Hey, I told her, if she went with me, she would only have a decent husband.

- How long did it take you to realize that matchmaking should stop?

- A few years or so. Besides, no one forced me to do those things, I was just meddling, and those things were full of gossip so I don't do them anymore.

- Showbiz is considered to have few talented people, most of them trade for fame. Que Van had a youth passionate about being famous and tried to be famous. So what was the price she received?

- It was fatigue. I encountered so many deadlocks, many times I thought about ending my life. But doing it right is not simple. I went up to the bridge and wanted to jump off but was afraid of the pain.

I also bought sleeping pills but I was so scared that I foamed at the mouth and didn’t die. I cried for days and nights without eating or sleeping, finally I fainted and had to be taken to the emergency room.

Then I woke up, I realized I needed to be beautiful, I needed to do everything again. As long as my loved ones were still there, I would stay until the last minute, and I gave up showbiz. Now my life is peaceful, strangely so.

- Que Van shows that she understands showbiz very well. She has tried all kinds of tricks with showbiz and still got defeated by that world, in such a way?

- Showbiz brings a terrible halo, it's like an opium pill. I used to be like many people in other industries, spending a lot of time dressing up, putting on makeup just to go to events and get a photo in the newspaper. And in showbiz, you always have to think of tricks, dress revealingly but also have to calculate how much to reveal, what to do to get attention.

Now I have changed 180 degrees, and no longer need to do that. I understand showbiz too well, real talent is too rare, all using money to buy fame. Spending money, spending money to make MVs, holding press conferences, information only gets attention for about 2 days, then everything goes away. For what?

I realized, fame is fleeting. Chasing it is exhausting.

I hope my story will be a lesson for many people, so that many people will wake up when entering showbiz. That world can turn us into moths, chasing after the seductive light of fame and money. Leaving that world, our hearts will be peaceful and serene.