Wife's mistakes turn husband into a weak person

I really hate women who sit around and badmouth their husbands. They always criticize their husbands for being clumsy, lazy, or irresponsible.

My lover is beautiful, kind, loves taking care of the family, knows how to cook, and always finds housework a joy. Such a rare wife should be married immediately. I am assured that I have a wife to serve instead of having to serve my wife. However, since the day I got married, the prospect that I had hoped for began to fade.

On the first day of marriage, my wife made me hand over my salary ATM card and the code. In addition to the fixed expenses my wife gives me every month, I had to get her approval for any additional expenses, even though it was money I earned. Every time I needed to spend something, my wife questioned me like she was interrogating me, even about the company's reserve fund.

My wife takes care of me from meals to sleep. When she is busy and cannot cook for me, she gives instructions from afar. The refrain she uses most often is: “You should… you have to… be like this to be good…”. My wife often argues, “Men are lazy, if we don’t take care of them, they will ignore me…”.

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During meals, my wife never forgets to remind me to eat this and eat less of that. Every day, my wife makes me go to bed on time to ensure my health, even during my afternoon nap. I have to go to bed like this at night, and wake up like that in the morning. Whenever I go out with my friends and my wife can't come along, she gets very worried, she has to make several phone calls to remind me, "drink less, you have to come home before 10pm."

Whenever I prepare to go on a business trip, whether far or near, my wife prepares a lot of things, from medicine to needles and thread, from slippers to washcloths. If I accidentally say I don't need it, the hotel has everything, my wife will definitely get upset and then give me a lecture on personal hygiene. And if I don't call her at least twice a day, she will be restless, trying to find a way to contact me until she hears my voice.

My wife completely transformed me from the inside out, from top to bottom, from right to left… My colleagues and friends were afraid to invite me to hang out. I love my wife and don’t want to upset the peace of the family that she has devoted her wholehearted care and concern for.

But the way my wife takes care of and treats her husband makes me feel suffocated at times. To be honest, sometimes I feel like my wife is no different from a nanny. The desire to conquer and the bravery of a man, a husband, have gradually been subdued and restrained by his wife.

I became a person who lived by a predetermined formula, whatever I did, what I ate, what I wore, where I went, my wife scheduled everything, and I just did it. My wife listened to me, but after a while, I didn’t know why, she returned to her old position. Until one day, I accidentally heard my wife confiding in a close girlfriend: “I’m no different from a single mother, having to take care of three children, two babies and a lazy husband…”./.

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