Confessions about 'love expenses' of Vinh University students 'storm' online community

(Baonghean.vn) - After knowing each other for 3 months, they went out about ten times, but then the other person's attitude gradually became colder. The girl wondered and asked, then she found out the reason was that every time they went out, the guy was the one who paid...

This is the "stormy" confessions content posted on the fanpage "Vinh University Confessions", receiving more than 1,000 likes and hundreds of comments and shares.

The writer of the confessions is a female student, studying in class 57 of Vinh University. The girl admits that she is quite pretty and charming, and is pursued by many people.

The confession content "caused a storm" on Vinh University's fanpage. Photo: Vinh University Confessions Fanpage

"A while ago, a guy in my class also tried to flirt with me and I also had feelings for him. After about 3 months of talking to each other via Facebook and Zalo, we met. Then we went out to eat and go for a walk. Everything went well. He was tall and handsome, talked openly and was very compatible with me. After that, we went out to eat, drink milk tea, hang out, go to the movies, etc. about ten more times.

At that time, I really liked him, just waiting for him to confess, but then, I felt he was cold towards me. He rarely texted or called me, or even didn't contact me at all. When I texted him, he said he was busy or rarely replied. When I asked him to go out for milk tea, he made up excuses like he was tired, hurt, or busy...

So I asked my friend (he plays with him and I met him because he introduced me) and he said that every time I go out and eat, he always pays, at least 100k then 200, 300k, one or two times is fine, but if it's like that every time, then even if we love each other in the future, will he have to breathe air to survive?

I really think it's normal. When you're dating someone, it's normal for the guy to pay, right? Why does he have to make such a big deal out of it?"

Just a few hours after posting, this confession received a series of responses from the online community. Many people frankly expressed their views on the issue of "love expenses", thinking that this girl is too pragmatic and calculating, no matter how gallant the man is, but while he is still a student and has not made any money yet, such love is a burden.

Account Huong Le said: "In my opinion, you should share. Or at least invite another time. Where did the rule come from that the guy has to pay!". Sharing the same opinion, account Lan Canh wrote: "I don't like the idea of ​​going out with a guy who is a hired guy. It's normal for you but not normal for the other person. If you don't have Cambodian money, stay home."

Kboy Dtu account frankly said: "If you let your brothers pay everything, one day they will all be dragging themselves along. I'm not talking far away from myself. I just graduated with a monthly salary of 3 million but every time I invite my girlfriend, I always pay everything, to be honest, I don't even have water to drink. Girls nowadays have progressed. You have to learn from them. Don't you feel embarrassed when you go on dates and let your boys pay everything???"

Many people even harshly "scold" the confession owner as a "food saint", and "praised" the guy as "the most provincial male student in the Gulf of Tonkin".

However, among hundreds of responses, there are also some accounts that agree with the thoughts of the cofession owner. They think that, in the past, it was natural for boys to pay when eating and shopping with girls, showing their responsibility as men!

It is known that this is not the first confession about the "love expenses" of students. This story, which seems to have nothing new, seems to never be "hot". I think that in love, if you are too straightforward, there is nothing romantic. However, if one of the two people, especially the woman, is too carefree, indifferent, and has no intention of sharing a part of the "love expenses" with her boyfriend, it will easily lead to the feeling that the woman is selfish and not serious.

Student love, although beautiful, often encounters many difficulties, partly because both sides do not make money yet. Depending on the situation, income... there is a reasonable level of sharing. This sharing also creates a sense of respect from the boyfriend, proving sincere feelings from both sides.

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