A father of three's heartfelt letter to his wife after giving birth received a storm of likes.

'I have never given birth but my experience is probably enough,' the humorous father of the year wrote in a letter calling on 500 brothers to show lots of love to their women.

The following is shared by the father of 3 children Bui Tung in Hanoi while taking care of his wife who just gave birth to their third child. The restaurant chain owner born in 1988 said that his wife gave birth 3 times in 3 consecutive years, so it was quite difficult. Every time, no matter how busy his business was, he always tried to arrange and spend time to be with his wife and personally take care of her.

The following "heartfelt letter" from this witty guy on Facebook on May 17 while taking care of his wife giving birth at the hospital attracted 9,300 likes and was shared more than 4,300 times:

Mr. Bui Tung takes care of his wife giving birth in the hospital.

If 500 of you believe me... then try to read and understand everything to ease your wife's suffering.Not to flatter women or my wife, but it is true that "only after having children do you understand the heart of a parent". Only when you stay up all night with your wife taking care of the child in the hospital can you fully understand the suffering, fatigue and pain of a woman when she is pregnant and when she has just given birth.

I have never given birth but I have enough experience (2 of my 3 children, I directly took care of both mother and child from labor until discharge, one normal birth and one cesarean section).With the experience of staying in the hospital twice to take care of my wife giving birth, I can honestly say that the scene of waking up 3-5 times a night, anxiously preparing milk, changing diapers, or suddenly crying (without any specific reason or time), even a strong, healthy, night owl like me would be terrified.

Sometimes I get angry (in my head only), not to mention mothers who have been pregnant for 9 months, tired, and then in pain after giving birth. Mothers who give birth normally are a little better, but mothers who have had a cesarean section are terrible. The incision has not healed completely. Just moving hurts so much that I wet several diapers, not to mention standing up and sitting down to rock, cuddle, or breastfeed the baby...

Ms. Tran Quynh, wife of Mr. Bui Tung, appreciates her husband's care, attention, and especially his understanding and support during her pregnancy and childbirth.

Not to mention the mothers who have blocked milk ducts. I don't know how painful it is, but the first time I saw my wife with the baby, she was in so much pain that she had a fever and chills. Her breasts were always hard and tight. I tried everything, from having my husband help, using a breast pump, applying medicine, and all sorts of things, but her breasts were like a ball, while the baby had no milk to drink, crying loudly...

If you look tired, you can go home and rest. Someone will replace you, but mothers are in pain and tired, but no one can replace them. Every day is the same, if you don't try, you have to try. That is if you are lucky, normally you have a loving and caring husband and family, but if you are unlucky and encounter a difficult situation (having a child without a husband, a lazy husband, a cruel in-law family...) then you don't know how much more miserable and miserable you will be. No wonder many mothers are exhausted, crazy, stressed, autistic, and crazy after giving birth.

"My dear wife is very good, she has completed her mission excellently... I love her so much, I love her forever!", Mr. Bui Tung wrote and shared on Facebook when his wife just gave birth.

Not to mention, like me, for example, I have experience, a great mouth, and a lot of subtlety, but the key point that every husband must ask himself and answer every day is whether he truly loves his wife, loves his children, understands and sympathizes with his wife's hard work and sacrifices or not.

If it is "really true", then at least during the time your wife is abstaining from taking care of the child, be a good husband, a model father, wholeheartedly indulge your wife, love your child, walk softly, speak softly, smile charmingly. Wherever you go, remember to leave late and come home early. If your wife says one thing, you cannot argue with two things. If your wife says 2-1=0, you must still smile and think it is right. Absolutely do not argue, raise your voice, go out at night and come home late, leaving your wife alone with the child (if you are angry and can't do anything, you will hurt your child).

I tell the truth, I am also a man, I also like to play. I used to be famous for playing, but everything has to come to an end. Real men play all their lives, they know when to play. There is no shortage of times to play, so don't take advantage of your wife's time in bed to sneak out to play. That's cowardly.

According to VNE