A father of three's letter to his wife after giving birth receives a storm of likes

'I have never given birth before, but my experience is probably enough,' the humorous father of the year wrote in a letter calling on 500 brothers to give lots of love to their women.

The following is shared by father of 3 Bui Tung in Hanoi while taking care of his wife who just gave birth to their third child. The restaurant chain owner born in 1988 said that his wife gave birth 3 times in 3 consecutive years, so it was quite difficult. Every time, no matter how busy his business was, he always tried to arrange and spend time to be with his wife and personally take care of her.

The following "letter" from this witty guy on Facebook on May 17 while taking care of his wife giving birth at the hospital attracted 9.3 thousand likes and was shared more than 4.3 thousand times:

Mr. Bui Tung takes care of his wife giving birth in the hospital.

If 500 brothers believe me... then try to read and understand everything to help your wife suffer less.Not to flatter women or my wife, but it is true that "only after having children do you know the heart of a parent". Only when you stay up all night with your wife taking care of the child in the hospital can you fully understand the suffering, fatigue and pain of a woman when she is pregnant and when she has just given birth.

I have never given birth but I have enough experience (2 of my 3 children, I directly took care of both mother and child from birth until discharge, one normal birth and one cesarean section).With experience from 2 times staying in the hospital to take care of my wife giving birth, I can honestly say that the scene of waking up 3-5 times a night, when making milk, changing diapers, when the baby suddenly cries (without any specific reason or time), even a strong, healthy, and often night owl like me would be terrified.

Sometimes I get angry (in my head only), let alone mothers who have been pregnant for 9 months, tired, and then in pain after giving birth. Mothers who have given birth normally are a little better, but mothers who have had a C-section are terrible. The incision has not healed completely. Just moving hurts so much that I wet several diapers, let alone standing up and sitting down to rock, cuddle, or breastfeed the baby...

Ms. Tran Quynh, wife of Mr. Bui Tung, appreciates her husband's care, attention and especially his understanding and support during her pregnancy and childbirth.

Not to mention the mothers who have blocked milk ducts. I don't know how painful it is, but the first time I saw my wife with the baby, she was in so much pain that she had a fever and chills. Her breasts were always hard and tight. I tried everything, from my husband helping her, to using a breast pump, to applying medicine, but her breasts were like a ball, while the baby had no milk to drink, and was crying loudly...

If you look tired, you can go home and rest, someone will replace you, but mothers are so painful and tired, but no one can replace them. Every day is the same, if you don't try, you have to try. That is if you are lucky, normally you have a loving and caring husband and family, but if you are unlucky and encounter a difficult situation (having a child without a husband, a lazy husband, a cruel in-law family...) then I don't understand how much more miserable and miserable you will be. No wonder many mothers are exhausted, crazy, stressed, autistic, and crazy after giving birth.

"My dear wife is very good, she has completed her mission excellently... I love her so much, I love her forever!", Mr. Bui Tung wrote and shared on Facebook when his wife just gave birth.

Not to go too far, like me, for example, I have experience, a great mouth, and more than enough sophistication, but the key point that every husband must ask himself and answer every day is whether he truly loves his wife, cares for his children, understands and sympathizes with his wife's hard work and sacrifices or not.

If it is "really true", then at least during the time your wife is abstaining from taking care of the child, be a good husband, a model father, wholeheartedly indulge your wife, love your child, walk softly, speak softly, smile charmingly. Wherever you go, remember to leave late and come home early. If your wife says one thing, you cannot argue with her, if she says 2-1=0, you must still smile and think it is right. Absolutely do not argue, raise your voice, go out at night and come home late, leave your wife alone with the child (if you are angry and can't do anything, you will hurt your child).

To tell the truth, I am also a man, I also like to play. I used to be famous for playing, but everything has to come to an end. Real men play all their lives, they know when to play. There is no shortage of times to play, so don't take advantage of your wife's time in bed to sneak out and play. That's cowardly.

According to VNE