I will come back if my wife stops being blindly jealous.

I know my children are at a disadvantage, but because I want my wife to end it, I have to act like that.

My wife and I have been married for 5 years and rent a house in Hanoi. I am 35 years old, my wife is 31, and we have two sons. My wife stays at home to take care of the children and run a business at home. I am working for a private company. During the past time, my wife and I have always had conflicts due to suspicions that I am having an affair and gambling, mainly because my wife is too jealous. Of course, due to the nature of my job, I have to work far away and cannot come home to take care of the family. I also explained to my wife that I did not have an affair.

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Normally, after work, I always spend time taking care of the children and doing the cooking at home, not letting my wife think too much, doing whatever she wants; I want my wife to be free. My wife always ignores my actions and words, accusing me of adultery, having a lover, and bringing up unreasonable suspicions to both families and friends. I am really annoyed by my wife's behavior, but I restrain myself to avoid arguments between us.

My wife's jealousy is a chronic disease that has no cure. For example, when I go out to meet friends, my wife has to ask who I'm meeting, or who I'm going with? When I come home from work, my wife checks my clothes for any strange smells, then looks at my phone. My wife's way of keeping her husband is like no other, I can't be patient anymore. I yelled and we had arguments again. My wife was even too unreasonable when she told the landlord that I was having an affair, always going out with this person or that person. I couldn't stand it, I accidentally slapped my wife, the next day I told my wife's family, sent my wife and child there for a while. I took my eldest child back to my husband's hometown, and locked the rented house, all work was delayed.

It has been a month since I left my wife and children. Although I miss them very much and want to meet them to resolve the issue, my wife still has that mindset so I cannot return. I know that my children are at a disadvantage, but because I want my wife to stop being jealous for no reason, I have to act like this.

According to VNE