Since I got married my life has been hell.

I can do anything for my wife, but in return she is willing to insult and scold me and my family.

I am 30 years old, the youngest son of a family of teachers. She is 4 years younger than me, her family has had many problems since birth so her situation is pitiful. She did not have a proper education, did not have the love of her parents since she was young, lived with her grandmother and had to work hard since she was 12, 13 years old. Because her family was not as happy as other families, since she was little, her only dream was to have a happy, warm home. I met her by chance when we worked together, I had feelings for her because she was very cute. After a while of talking, she began to open up and confide in me about her situation. I felt love, wanted to protect and take care of her, then we fell in love, I wanted to do everything for her to make up for what she did not have. Because thinking about an ideal family has turned me into a man who loves with all my heart.

After a while, we decided to get married, but for many reasons, both families did not accept it. My family thought she was not good, and so did her family. One time, to protect her, I had to pretend to be crazy and act aggressive, so I was labeled crazy and opposed to our relationship. I could not explain it to her family because everything had already happened, and no one would believe it. After a period of opposition, my family accepted it because I had completely changed and was no longer playful.

The wedding took place without the bride's family, my family took care of the entire wedding ceremony and many other things, not worth mentioning. Everything that gave me a headache happened. First, my wife was jealous of every girl around me, no matter how old or young, ugly or beautiful, even those who had husbands and children, even those I didn't know. I was upset but let it go because I thought my wife loved me so she was jealous. But that's not all, my wife was also jealous of my sister just because her child looked like me and not like her father. Then there was the matter of money, my wife valued money more than me and family affection, nitpicking every little thing, going to the market to buy things and spending 100 thousand but if I mistakenly remembered 90 thousand, she would come back and ask as if I had stolen my wife's money. My wife kept all my salary, and I didn't spend anything, I only smoked, didn't drink, didn't go out, after work I stayed at home, only went out when my wife asked me to go shopping or take me somewhere.

When we got married, we had a lot of jewelry left over from my family, and the wedding money was almost 20 million. Because we still had to pay for the restaurant, my family kept about 5 million and hadn't given it to us yet, but every time I mentioned it, my wife would ask for it back. And sometimes, if I did something that displeased my wife, she would scold me. I could do anything for my wife, but in return, she was ready to humiliate and scold me and my family. What should I do now...

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