Extremely effective tips to make up when husband and wife quarrel
(Baonghean.vn) - Every family is like that, no matter how much a couple loves each other, they cannot avoid times when things are not going well. Therefore, knowing the tricks to make up is something that everyone should think about.
The most important thing when your spouse is angry is that you need to understand the reason for their anger. With your heart and sincere concern, you will definitely succeed in reconciling and bring a warm atmosphere back to your family.
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With your heart and sincere concern, you will definitely succeed in reconciling and bring a warm atmosphere back to your family. Illustration photo |
For those who have misunderstandings or doubts:The best way to reconcile when a couple is angry is to sit down and talk frankly and solve the problem together. In case the other person refuses to sit down and talk, an email, a few inbox lines or a handwritten message sent to that person will also be very effective.
For angry wives or husbands who act spoiled:What they need is attention. Therefore, suitable gifts, loving and caring attitudes will make them feel important and forget all the unreasonable anger.
Especially for those who use anger to demand something:They may not give in until their partner does as they are told. At this point, use gentle persuasion to get them to change their mind. If you include a gift that the other person will enjoy, this tactic will be even more effective.
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The majority of wives' psychology is always wanting their husbands to "seek peace" first. Illustrative photo |
However, the majority of wives always want their husbands to “seek peace” first, to prove their worth and to be loved by their husbands. Many women want to make up with their husbands, but their “ego” is too big, so the wife decides to stay silent and wait for her husband to make peace first.
The best way for a wife to behave is to be flexible, not always forcing her husband to make up first when angry. Depending on the situation, the wife can take the initiative to make up, and when the couple has reconciled, the wife continues to analyze what is right and what is wrong for her husband to understand.
Start with an apology
An apology is always the best thing to help a couple make up after an argument. In love, right or wrong is not as important as the fact that after all, both of you still want to be together for a long time. If you cannot say it because of self-respect, then send him a message to make up and wait for him to text back. Surely no one wants to keep it.
Cook his favorite dishes
This is one of the good ways to help couples make up quickly after an argument. Cook a meal full of his favorite dishes, don't forget to decorate with some flowers and candles to make the space more romantic and create a surprise for him.
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Psychological consultants also advise that physical intimacy is an effective tool to relieve inner frustration. Illustrative photo |
"Miracle drug" kiss and sex
There is nothing better than resolving conflicts with kisses and sex… In those sweet and passionate moments, all conflicts and anger will disappear.
Psychological consultants also advise that physical intimacy is an effective tool to relieve inner frustrations, considering "that thing" a miracle drug to maintain stability in marriage.
Say sweet words
Many people confide that when a couple is angry with each other, the wife suddenly interrupts with "Honey", "Honey", and the wife feels sorry for her and is no longer angry. Especially, if those signals are sent from the husband, the effect of reconciliation is even faster.