Comedian Chien Thang's wife: "I often transfer money to my husband's ex-wives"

Thu Ngoc proactively helped her husband transfer money to his ex-wives to raise their children and was very happy when her husband cared about his stepchildren.

- How is your current health status when you are pregnant with your first child?

- I am now more than 2 months pregnant. Although I cannot eat rice and still feel uncomfortable when smelling food, I feel that my morning sickness has improved a lot. I have not lost weight because of morning sickness, but my face has more acne and I often feel sleepy.

- How does your husband - comedian Chien Thang - take care of you?

- Whatever I like to eat, he will go buy it. Sometimes when it's late at night, he still goes out to buy it or goes to the kitchen to cook food for his wife. Knowing that I like to eat corn, he often buys it and boils it for me to eat. I don't often eat at night, so whenever he has free time during the day, he goes into the kitchen to cook the dishes I like.

- Getting pregnant after a short time of getting back together, how did you and your husband handle it?

- At first, I didn't know I was pregnant because I didn't think it would happen so quickly. After the ultrasound, I told Mr. Thang and he was very happy. He told me: "From now on, you don't have to do anything, you don't have to touch anything." He took care of finding a hospital for me to go to for a check-up and give birth there. Since I was pregnant, he often helps me with housework like cleaning, tidying up or cooking. Whenever he has free time, he sings, paints... I feel that he cares for me and is very different from before. Now I feel like we are a real family. Seeing him having to work hard at night and still sharing the work with his wife when he comes home makes me love him even more.

Comedian Chien Thang’s third wife, Thu Ngoc, was born in 1990 and used to be a teacher in Phu Tho. Thu Ngoc and Chien Thang got married at the end of 2016 and suddenly divorced after half a year of living together. A few months later, they quietly got back together.

- How did your husband's children receive the news that they were going to have a sibling?

- Thang's children are very innocent, they are happy to have more people. The youngest child Thao My always says she likes her mother and her younger sister and sometimes rubs her mother's belly and talks to her. Whenever they have a day off from school, Thang's three children come here to play with us. My mother-in-law also cares a lot about her daughter-in-law. She sometimes helps me with all the housework and whatever I want to eat, she buys it and cooks it for me.

- Why did you decide to get pregnant when you just got back with your husband?

- Before, I didn't want to have children because Thao My - Thang's youngest daughter - was too young, but when we got back together, we both thought that having a child was also a commitment. Besides, having children at home would make me happier every time Thang went on a tour. Therefore, we decided to have a child right away. Thang said that having a child right away would help his wife at home not have to think too much and then get bored. I feel lucky to have a child at this time and think that maybe God loves me too.

- What made you change and decide to return to Chien Thang after completing the divorce proceedings a few months ago?

- Before, Mr. Thang had no time for his family, forgot his responsibilities as a husband, which made me unhappy. I used to talk frankly with him but he just listened and left it there without changing at all. That made me decide to divorce. At that time, Mr. Thang tried to hold on but I was still resolute and determined as if we were playing a game of cards where one was to lose or two was to win. I left because I wanted him to change. I thought that if he changed, I would still give him a chance, but if he didn't change, we would never be together again. Before "going our separate ways", I told him that. When he went to court, he still told me: "My wife will go back to her parents' house for a while and then her husband will come pick her up."

Just a short time after the divorce, he called me, promised to change and asked me to give him time. In those days, every time Thang came home from work, he called me and every time something happened downstairs, he also called to report. He told me everything, both happy and children's stories, as if we had never divorced. On my part, I also told him everything that happened at home. After a while of calling like that, he said he wanted to come to my house to talk and brought his mother and younger brother with him. During that meeting, the two families talked to each other as if nothing had happened and then he said that after the ghost month, he would come to ask his parents' permission to take me back. At that time, I told him: "In the past, I married you quickly, but now I broke up and got married again quickly too". Maybe we still have a relationship.

Emotional moments of Chien Thang - Thu Ngoc couple after "reuniting".

- You want him to change so that the marriage can continue to be happy, but why don't you temporarily break up and insist on going to court to legally end it?

- For me, everything must be clear. I want the beginning and the end to be clear. I don't like vague things like temporary separation. I think that during the divorce, he might find a more suitable woman and maybe get married to her because he no longer has any ties to me. If he can't find anyone else, I will still give him a chance. I can't force him to separate from me and then not be able to be with anyone else because he is old.

- You think so about him, but what about yourself?

- As for myself, I believe in fate. At that time, I thought that maybe after divorcing Thang, God would let me meet another man, but maybe I wouldn't marry anyone else. I just hoped he would find the right person and live happily. Thang had a rather bumpy love life, so I wanted to end it so he wouldn't have to worry about me anymore.

- How did Chien Thang's stepchildren react during the time the two broke up?

- Thao My - Thang's youngest daughter kept calling me and saying "Mom, come back to Dad! Dad is very good now". When I asked "Is Dad really good? If Dad is really good, then Mom will come back, otherwise you can stay here", she replied "If you are shy, come back to Hanoi to see me, I will be home from school at 4 o'clock". Dung Nhi, Thang's second daughter, was also very sad and often called me to come down to play. Every weekend, the children come back to their home in Vinh Phuc to play with Thang and use their father's phone to call me as if we had not broken up. I really love Thang's children so every time I talk to them, I miss them very much.

Meanwhile, Thang often talks to me and I still think I will give him a chance if he changes. Everyone has flaws, no one is perfect so I am not too demanding. Even if I come to another man, who knows, that person might not be like him.

- After going to court for divorce and going their separate ways for a few months, how do you see your husband change?

- He has changed so much that I don't even recognize him. He cares, looks after and respects me more. Maybe he loves me more now than before. He arranges his work to spend more time with me. Before, he was too busy and indifferent, he rarely talked when he came home, but now it's completely different. Every time he comes home from a show, he first asks where his wife is and then tells me about how he went to work, both happy and frustrating things. Every day, my wife and I talk to each other until 1-2am before going to sleep.

If in the past he was very quiet and almost never told stories, only hugged the computer when he came home, now he shares more with me about work, life and children. In addition, Mr. Thang now calls home very often after work. Every time he is on the road or after a performance, he calls to "gossip" so that his wife at home will not be sad. In the past, he never did that. Those changes made me feel shocked but also happier and more secure because I felt that he really cared about me. Perhaps the time we were apart helped him understand everything and change, live differently. Now, I think I made the right choice. This time I hope I am not wrong again.

Thu Ngoc is very close to Thao My - the third daughter of comedian Chien Thang.

- When you got back together, how did your husband discuss with you about sharing child-rearing responsibilities with his ex-wives?

- I am often the one who transfers money to them to raise their children. I have no opinion on this issue because they came before me and the children are also the children of them and Mr. Thang. I am very happy that Mr. Thang cares about the children. I think that children are innocent and are the ones who suffer when their parents divorce, so I always want Mr. Thang to make it up to the children. Everywhere I go or see something, I buy it for the children.

Mr. Thang respects his wife so he often asks me about giving money to the children, but I never have any opinion because I think it is reasonable. Mr. Thang is very busy so I often remind him to send money to the children when it is due. When he is too busy, I will send it to him or I will automatically send it on the due date without him asking. As for Bao (artist Chien Thang's eldest son), every time he comes to visit, I will give it to him. In the family, my husband and I manage the finances together. When he comes home from work, he gives his wife money and whenever he wants to buy something or do something, my husband and I talk to each other.

According to Star.net