Vu Ha reveals surprising information about the love story of Dam Vinh Hung and My Tam
The male singer said that he witnessed the love story between Dam Vinh Hung and My Tam from the beginning. However, this love story did not go anywhere because My Tam had a third person.
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The relationship between Dam Vinh Hung and My Tam has always been a question mark for fans. |
Appearing on the show “Say it, don’t be shy”, singer Vu Ha shared a lot about his 25-year friendship with Dam Vinh Hung and the love story between the singer of “Sea of Love” and My Tam.
The audience rumored that Dam Vinh Hung and I were in love because they didn't understand.
When I first met Dam Vinh Hung, I saw in him the sincerity and honesty of someone who wanted to make friends. At that time, Hung was new to the profession, nothing, and I already had a bit of fame and had many shows. I needed a friend and sincerely wanted to help new singers.
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Vu Ha and Dam Vinh Hung have been close friends for more than 20 years. |
What I like about Hung is his heart. Hung can buy me a bag of plums and some guava pieces from the street carts.
We have many things in common, such as never hiding our feelings, cursing at people we don't like. Especially, we love doing things that no one else does.
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Vu Ha and Dam Vinh Hung are very close friends in showbiz. |
It was very difficult for Dam Vinh Hung and I to stop being friends because it was more than friendship and became soul mates. We understood each other to the point that we didn’t need the other person to say anything to know what they wanted. A couple can divorce but it’s very difficult to be soul mates.
People say we love each other because they don't understand. They don't see us together or living together with everyone else, so they misunderstand.
To become famous, Dam Vinh Hung had to make many sacrifices.
Dam Vinh Hung and I have never been jealous of each other. That's what Hung likes about me. We've been close for decades without anything happening because there's no jealousy.
Everyone has their own position. Hung deserves it, and I am happy to have it. I think simply like this: If music is a banquet, each person is a dish. If I am just a salad, Hung creates to become a very unique, expensive, branded dish.
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Dam Vinh Hung came to congratulate My Tam on the release of her CD "My Assistant". |
If my friend gets it, I should be happy. If I don't get it, it's my own fault. I can't blame anyone else. Because I'm not willing to make myself into something else.
When I first became famous, people found out I had a family and my fans turned their backs on me. I got married at 26 but I only became famous at 33. Only close friends knew, I didn't announce it.
Back then, some female fans even came to my house to secretly take pictures and ask for them. I only dared to call my wife "sister". When the audience found out, the fans gradually distanced themselves from me. Back then, the media did not encourage young men to marry older women, so I was gossiped about. The press and media did not like me.
In the past, it was very difficult to get on newspapers and television, so artists had to be role models to be popular. I was not considered a role model. Therefore, I was crossed off the list and never appeared on television.
I just quietly and quietly sing in the West to earn money, never appearing in the media.
I don't feel bad about this. Hung has to make sacrifices to be like this. Until now he still doesn't have a family, he comes home alone at night.
Meanwhile, I only give a part to the audience, to the stage. Then, I return to my family. Who is happier? We look at Dam Vinh Hung and admire him because he has so many people cheering for him, but when he comes home and closes the door, he is alone.
My Tam is the person Hung loves the most but they broke up because of a third person.
If Hung or I hate someone, the other one will hate them too and won't play with us. For example, if Hung hates someone, we still greet each other normally when we go to a concert together, maybe sing together but we never get close or talk to each other.
People say Hung screams fire, I don't know, but to me, it's still like the first day I met him.
I witnessed the love story between Dam Vinh Hung and My Tam from the beginning. It was smooth at first, but one day a third person appeared.
I have never seen Hung drink a whole bottle of wine. The third person is My Tam. That is the reason why Hung drinks and gets drunk like that.
The person I feel Hung loves the most is My Tam, but their fate is not enough. I do not interfere in their love affair because they are both grown up and have a position in society. Hung is not a stupid person, so whatever he says is meaningless. Because even if they "ship" each other, they cannot get close to each other, that's okay.