How to cope when the husband is impotent

The time when women are most "excited" is also when their husbands are... impotent. This makes both of them feel uncomfortable, but if handled improperly, it can affect men's self-esteem. What to do when your husband is impotent is an issue that women need to pay attention to.

The wife should care more for her husband. Help her husband feel most comfortable so that he can continue to be interested in "that matter". In particular, the wife needs to do the following things to help her husband overcome the difficulties caused by impotence.

Don't blame yourself.

Many wives feel hurt, worried and think that they are not attractive enough to make their husbands lose interest. In fact, the problem of erection due to lack of interest in women in men is almost non-existent. Therefore, the problem is not entirely on the woman's side, so wives do not need to worry and "take responsibility" for this incident.

Need to understand husband's mood

If women mock, blame or blame themselves for men being “incompetent”, it will increase the pressure on them, thereby making the problem worse. Therefore, when men have this problem, women need to put themselves in their husbands’ shoes to understand their feelings. At the same time, show concern and share with your husband that sympathy is expressed in a delicate and gentle way because if you show panic or excessive concern, it can make your husband more self-conscious.

Need to find out the cause of husband impotence

In fact, there are many reasons why men cannot get an erection such as work pressure, anxiety, stress, stimulants such as alcohol, beer, cigarettes or some drugs. In addition, it can be due to obesity, low testosterone levels... Some diseases such as diabetes, heart disease, multiple sclerosis can also cause erectile dysfunction.

Women need to stay calm and find out the real cause of their husband's impotence and then find the most appropriate and effective solution.

Change positions and spaces when making love

If the husband cannot get an erection during sex, the wife should do other things with her husband that both of them like or feel satisfied with, such as hugging, kissing, etc. This will reduce the pressure on the husband, making him not feel "impotent". This has a very positive effect in improving this bad situation.

Talking to my husband about the “incident”

Choose the right time when your husband is most comfortable and relaxed to share with him your feelings at that time and help him express his thoughts and feelings when facing problems. Being frank, understanding and supporting each other will help the two of you become closer, more loving and more attached to each other.

Heart care for husband

Impotence can be the first sign of cardiovascular disease. Clinically, 80% of men with cardiovascular disease who are hospitalized in the first 3 years before erectile dysfunction appears. Therefore, it is necessary to take good care of cardiovascular health, use foods that are good for the cardiovascular system, maintain an exercise regimen...

In short, the wife's help is extremely necessary for the husband to quickly overcome impotence.

According to VNN