10 ways parents behave that can ruin their children's lives

Make the child afraid:Some parents think that love means forcing their children to follow their wishes and emotions. Many children can sense their parents' moods through footsteps, the sound of placing objects... They always have to live in fear and apprehension. As for parents, they think that they are doing everything for the benefit of their children and their children need to be grateful and not show doubt in those actions.

Want children to be responsible like adults:Some parents often "share" their responsibilities on their children's shoulders. For example, making children think that they are the reason why their parents are tired, drinking alcohol... Gradually, children will be caught up in the conflicts of adults. Parents make their children listen to whining and complaining but do not let them express their personal opinions like a real adult.

Never be satisfied with your achievements:This group of parents often crave for their children to be number one or achieve excellent results. Whatever the children try is never enough to please their parents. Giving false comments can hurt the children and make them think that they are a disappointment to their parents.

Asking children to share but mocking their feelings:Parents want their children to be honest, even making them feel guilty if they don’t confide in them. However, they then spread those sincere feelings everywhere, making them feel ashamed and not want to open up anymore.

Criticizing children but not helping them change:Parents have the habit of commenting excessively on their children's appearance, failures... without giving them a chance to improve, which will make children more self-conscious and withdrawn.

Want children to succeed but must follow parents' plan:Every parent wants their children to be successful, but some parents don’t care what their children have done to achieve that. For example, they want their children to have a stable career but don’t want them to live far from home. They put pressure on their children to be better than other children and make sure they have a better life than they do.

Make your children obey you but if the mistake is caused by the children:Parents treat their children as objects, they draw up plans and force their children to follow the path they have set. They also do not care much about the consequences of over-controlling their children and if there is a problem, it is the child's fault.

Always emphasize that your child is dependent on you:In normal families, parents will help their children to be independent, leave home and have their own lives. However, some parents act like the case in the illustration. They "kick" their children out of the house but emphasize that there is no better place than living with them. The children will have no right to object or have any other choice because they are dependent on their parents.

Remind yourself over and over again that you should be grateful for yourself:Parents provide something for their children that they don't really need and then emphasize and remind them as if their children owe them.

Wanting children to trust but not respecting their privacy:If parents always try to control and "invade" their children's privacy, it will cause children to feel disrespected and confined.