6 criteria to prove you have a fulfilling sex life

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Sometimes it can be hard to know if your sex life is perfect because not everyone is willing to talk about it with others. Are you as happy as other couples? Here are some signs that you and your spouse are having a great sex life and a measure to help you improve the situation if things are not really perfect.

1. You feel comfortable

Jane Greer, a sex psychologist and author of the book "A Lasting Relationship" (USA), said that when both partners feel satisfied and attracted during sex, it is a good sign that everything is working perfectly. Even if you have problems, the most important thing is to share and express your feelings so that the other person can grasp and handle them in time. Both of you will not have problems or be awkward.

It sounds simple but it is not easy to do. Therefore, spend more time on "that thing", you will definitely have a perfect relationship.

When both partners feel satisfied and attracted during sex, it is a good sign that everything is working perfectly. (Illustration: Internet)

2. You prioritize lovemaking

Making your partner feel important to you and your lovemaking is the key to perfect lovemaking. Dr. Ava Cadell, a sexologist (USA), said that scheduling lovemaking will help both of you.

Although many people believe that sex should be based on spontaneous desires and emotions rather than on a pre-determined schedule, scientists still encourage this arrangement. “Unless you have a leisurely life, without any worries, it is a great idea to have a clear schedule for sex,” said Victoria Zdrok Wilson, professor and doctor of sexology, author of the book The Sexual Solution.

Many couples are often overwhelmed by the problems of children, house cleaning, work, etc. Therefore, when there is a specific plan, both will be more proactive and comfortable in love because they can completely arrange their own time appropriately.

3. You are immersed in the feeling of love

Debra Laino, a medical expert, said that feeling connected with your partner during sex is a positive sign that everything is going well. He added that it doesn't matter how often you make love, as long as you feel comfortable and enjoy it, you have achieved your sexual goals.

Focusing on the quantity of sex is not a good way to judge the quality of your sex life. A recent study published in the American Journal of Medicine found that couples who pay too much attention to the frequency of sex are more stressed and do not enjoy sex as much as other couples.

Focusing on the quantity of love is not a good way to evaluate the quality of sex life. (Illustration: Internet)

4. Pleasure is something you get often

Carol Queen, a medical consultant in Stanley (USA), said that although pleasure is not everything in lovemaking, its appearance proves that everything is going very well. If there is no comfort, interest, excitement in each lovemaking, you will not be able to achieve this.

5. Feel connected

Research by Australian sexologists has shown that when two people feel connected to each other, it is a sign that their lovemaking is going well. According to scientists, physical contact through touch will bring both of you closer mentally. This is why when your lovemaking is perfect, you will feel more satisfied and closer to each other.

6. Creativity

Being creative and open to trying new things in the bedroom is also a sign that you are completely satisfied with your sex life. Changing the location of love, changing the time frame for sex or applying some new positions will bring you and your partner new feelings and interesting experiences.

According to Young Intellectuals