Bright Side recently shared a series of actions that young couples should avoid when conflicts arise to keep their marriage lasting.
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1. Don't bring family into the argument.Sometimes a small disagreement gets worse when parents find out. Marriage is between two people, if there are small conflicts in life, let's take the initiative to resolve them together, only when the problem is really big should we ask for help from family. |
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2. Avoid violence.Violence in a marriage never solves problems. It only makes things worse and hurts your partner. Discuss the problem when you are both calm. |
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3. Don't lump multiple issues together.If the main issue of the conflict is the unwashed dishes, focus on those and fix them. Bringing up your partner's past bad habits will only make a small problem worse. |
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4. Don't leave the house during an argument.It is a mistake to think that walking away from an argument will make the problem go away. The unresolved conflict is still there, and it is best to discuss it when both parties are calm and can see the problem better. |
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5. Do not sleep alone."A quarrel at the head of the bed makes peace at the foot of the bed" is an old saying. Daily habits, such as sleeping together, will make it easier to resolve conflicts. Two people can sleep in anger because of an argument, but sometimes wake up in each other's arms the next morning as if nothing happened. |
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6. Do not argue in public.Having a conflict or argument in public will only make people think that you don't respect each other. Moreover, when the argument is witnessed and discussed by many people, it can easily cause both sides to act "out of anger". |
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7. Never mention divorce.The words "let's get a divorce" can be the most hurtful thing to your spouse. When divorce is mentioned during an argument, it is more likely to actually happen and more quickly. |
According to Zing