The secret to making up after anger and quarrel

(Baonghean.vn) - After days of anger, quarrels... you start to miss that person and want to make up but your self-esteem is too high. However, if you have enough patience to resolve them, your relationship will become better.

The fault may lie with you or with your partner, but if you truly want the relationship to continue to grow, don't hesitate to make up. Holding grudges for days after an argument can lead to unwise actions by both you and your partner.

Here are some simple ways to make up with your ex:

Make a missed call

According to a survey on social networks, this is one of the best ideas to make up, to talk to that person again after an argument. Just dial his/her number and hang up quickly, you have successfully "caused nostalgia" with a missed call. When seeing your missed call, maybe that person will call or text back to ask. You can say that you accidentally pressed the wrong number and from there, the two of you can talk again naturally.

Appear by chance

If you know where he/she is likely to be at a certain time (like the gym, the pool, a favorite restaurant, etc.), go there and keep your distance. Even if you know he/she has seen you, act casual. When you see him/her, be friendly and say hello. He/she will most likely respond and you can be together again.

Say something irrelevant

If none of the above methods work for you, try direct contact and talking about unrelated things. Some people say this method of reconciliation really works. Specifically, call him/her and talk about things that are not related to your relationship. For example: "Do you know A? I wonder where to buy this bag?...". Random conversations as if nothing happened can make the atmosphere less awkward. Wait until the right time, when he/she is not upset with you, say sorry and want to make up to continue the relationship.

Give a gift

One of the easiest ways to make up that many people choose is to give a gift. All you have to do is very simple. Go online, find a gift that he/she has wanted for a long time or that means a lot to him/her and have it shipped to their address. After receiving the gift, he/she can call you back to thank you for it. From there, the two of you can make up.

Texting

Sometimes, making up is easier than you think. Just text him/her a message "How are you?" or "What are you doing?" or more directly "I'm sorry" and wait for a response. If this method is effective, you will receive a response from that person very quickly. But in some cases, the message "is gone forever", unfortunately, your mistake is too serious and this method of making up really cannot help you.

Disengage

Finally, after trying all the above methods and your apology is still not accepted, it is very possible that your lover has found a new partner or wants to completely cut ties with you. This can be painful, but when this happens, be ready to accept your mistake, apologize to your lover with sincerity and let them go, remember: "If you love someone, let them go. If they belong to you, they will come back. If not, they are definitely not the one for you".

Thu Tra

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