Need to orient beautiful life for students
(Baonghean) –Among students, there are increasingly distorted and negative manifestations in the way they perceive love, leading to acts of school violence and painful tragedies...
Until now, although 2 months have passed (since the night of February 20, 2011), people in Xuan Bac block (Hung Dung ward, Vinh city, Nghe An) are still shocked and say bitterly "how can a student commit such a barbaric act", when recalling the murder at his boarding house.To Thanh Dung (No. 6, Alley 51, Ton That Tung Street).
Because of blind love, Le Ngoc Quan (residing in Nghia Dung commune, Tan Ky district) murdered his lover, Thai Thi Thanh (residing in Lien Thanh commune, Yen Thanh district). Both were born in 1991 and were studying in the same Nursing department at Vinh Medical University. The consequence was that one person was gone forever, and the murderer now has to face punishment from the law, and the torments from the court of conscience...
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That incident was like a culmination of the complications that arose in school life in Nghe An, which had been widely known from the events of clips of female students fighting; 9th grade students stabbing their friends to death... And a question arises: how can such heartbreaking events happen from good relationships, in an environment that is considered the most peaceful (in this case, school)?
Answering this question, Associate Professor, Doctor of Psychology Nguyen Ba Minh (Head of the Faculty of Education, Vinh University), said: This is really a dangerous problem in the way of behaving in schools, when the tendency of violence and abuse is increasing. Each individual has a value system originating from ethical standards, which is created by many factors, that is from the family and value orientations from society, that value system will govern the actions of the individual himself. Once the value system and value orientation are both distorted, it will certainly create distorted behavior and then cases of violent behavior, abuse that harm others and oneself will occur. For love relationships, the most common consequence is causing harm to the person you love and to the individual himself.
Regarding the solution for a correct orientation, Associate Professor, Dr. Nguyen Ba Minh determined: Here, the responsibility for orientation must certainly come from the family (where individuals are born and raised), the school (where knowledge is imparted) and from society (where every day, every hour, there is always information and events happening that affect each person). In particular, orientation on the meaning of life, ideals, and behavior is the most important thing; because these values can change over time, they must be carried out continuously, mainly from birth to adulthood.
Clear,The emotional needs of young people are completely reasonable, opposite-sex feelings at school age can become the motivation, the strength for young people to rise up, strive in study and life, once it is oriented correctly towards the meaning of life. But just a little bit of distorted perception will break that relationship, and its consequences are difficult to predict.
Quang An
