"Bad children are the father's fault" - undeniable evidence
If you have the following types of behavior, fathers should find a way to change immediately so as not to affect the personality and development of their children.
1. Have unhealthy habits
In addition to increasing the risk of disease and negative health consequences later in life, children in families with alcoholic or drug-addicted fathers are also four times more likely to become addicted to alcohol, drugs, and gambling than children with normal fathers.
2. No affection, often quarrel with wife
If from a young age, children have learned from their parents what love is and how to love, then when they grow up, they will become people who live emotionally with their wives and children.
If a father does not understand his wife, often argues loudly with her, this will make the child afraid, emotionally unstable. Over time, it will easily cause the child to have behavioral problems and psychological imbalance.
3. Not participating in teaching and caring for children
In many families, raising children is considered the mother's job. However, if the father's involvement in raising children is not high during the child's growth, the child will think that the father does not love them, which will give rise to many psychological problems. In addition, boys will easily lack strength, while girls will unconsciously have to take on a part of the male role, losing the temperament of the fairer sex.
4. Rude language
A child who grows up with a father who often uses harsh, impolite language will absorb it into his daily life and grow up to become a copy.
5. Overprotecting children
Many fathers, out of love, want to protect their children, cover them completely, forbid them from doing this or that because they are afraid that they will have an accident or be in danger. However, overprotection will destroy their children's creativity, boldness and experience, making them timid, hesitant and unable to cope with life later on.
6. Talk but don't do
Dad makes his child wake up early but he still stays in bed. Dad makes his child go to bed early but still watches movies or plays on his phone until late at night... Children will feel it is unfair and ask: "Why do I have to do that when dad doesn't have to?"