'A 3-way meeting without jealousy'

Now my wife is like a different person, hot, provocative and honestly has bed skills that surprise me.

Today I was 3 hours late at the airport, accidentally read some articles about adultery and would like to share a few things with you ladies.

My purpose is simply to help women understand how men think about infidelity and what a wife can do when faced with this situation.

I am a 40 year old man, 4 years ago I had an affair with a girl 10 years younger. At that time I still loved my wife very much, never intended to leave her to be with that girl, just a little wrong thinking that men go out to play a little bit, just to relieve stress and because there is a hot girl who loves me, willing to give herself unconditionally, so why refuse.

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I would like to say that the girl came to me because of love. I have never given her any money or gifts except for some flowers because she likes flowers. She is also very obedient and innocent, so I believe she will not dare to do anything that will affect me.

After a year of our relationship, my wife discovered it. At that time, my marriage was on the brink of collapse because my wife was a strong and proactive person in life. When I knew that I was about to lose the most sacred thing, the family that I had built for more than 10 years, and the woman who had been with me since the days when I had nothing, I understood that just because of shallow thinking and temporary pleasure, I had committed a great sin.

I begged my wife for forgiveness, did everything I could to save the marriage, and luckily for the sake of my two children, my wife agreed to help me overcome this storm. The story of a man having an affair and being forgiven by his wife is nothing new. What I want to share here is that I truly admire and am grateful to my wife because she has overcome this extremely intelligently and wisely.

First, my wife asked me to have a meeting of three people, promising me that there would be no jealousy, no cursing or insulting the third person. I had no choice but to make an appointment with my lover at a coffee shop, because she loved me so much that even though she was in pain, when she saw me making an appointment, she came right away.

Seeing my wife, she was shocked because she didn't think I would do that. First, my wife asked me who I loved and chose? I said I always loved my wife and no one could compare to her. My wife calmly talked to me, almost advising me to stand up and start over. She said it was my fault, she was just a victim so she sympathized. She believed that I had enough self-respect, enough conscience and morality to get out of this relationship and never be so gullible to step into the life of a married man, like that I was stepping into the mud. She told me to swallow my tears and get over this, there will be another man who is better and will be mine.

Finally, my wife confirmed to my lover: "My husband did something very wrong, but the important thing is that he knows his mistake and I will hold his hand to overcome this. You don't have any more chances, so be sober and start your life over." I breathed a sigh of relief because I thought of the terrible jealousy scenes of wives.

After that, my wife asked us to move out and rent a house. Before that, we lived with our parents in an apartment, so sometimes we were not comfortable being intimate with each other. We hired a maid to do the housework and let our child sleep with the maid. In the evening, my wife and I walked together to the park to exercise, and on the weekends we went out to eat and drink coffee. Before, our relationship was quite boring because we slept with a small child and both of us were not comfortable.

Now my wife is like a different person, hot, provocative and honestly has skills in bed that surprise me and make me extremely satisfied. Later I found out that my wife had signed up for an online course in bedroom skills because I saw many messages in her email. She also did not hesitate to ask me to help her satisfy during sex.

In short, we have been together for more than 10 years but only now have we experienced such great progress in our relationship. My wife has changed almost completely, always cheerful, more easy-going and no longer paying attention to trivial matters. Sometimes she goes to the spa, shopping, or going out without letting me go with her, sometimes I have to ask for permission. Only later did my wife tell me why she had changed so much.

My wife said she actually hated me and the third person. She was not a tolerant enough woman to forgive easily those who hurt her, so she had to take revenge. After much research, she understood that the best way to take revenge was to live well, happily and joyfully. If the third person saw that our life was still full of happiness, that would be the arrow that pierced their heart. My wife still loved me very much, so there was no reason for her to lose me to someone else. She would make me fall in love and not think of anyone else. Instead of having to start over with another man, she would start over with me, the one who had chosen from the beginning.

After changing like that, my wife gradually stopped feeling hatred, felt that life was still good and no longer thought much about this pain. My wife said that if I betrayed her again, she would not regret it because she had lived a truly happy life. I know that my wife can completely calmly walk out of my life if I make another mistake.

Now I am the one who has to worry about losing my wife because I am infatuated with her. In life, sometimes your man will encounter incidents or mistakes, try to consider all mistakes as the same and do not differentiate adultery from other things. If it is adultery (hidden, secret), then the lover is not important to us. If a man truly loves, he will be willing to leave his wife to live with the person he loves.

Actually, we men are very weak in love, standing in the middle of temptations, it is difficult to distinguish right from wrong. You are the wife, the man has chosen you as his family, there is no reason for you to abandon him in times of trouble, right? So instead of trying to push us away, be clever and wise to pull us back to the right place, because you are the "wife", a very sacred thing in a man's life, not anyone else.

According to VNE