What makes women tired and bored with married life?

Below are some tips from psychologist Pham Hien for women on how to relieve stress, understand yourself and your partner, and how to behave to maintain family happiness.

The pressures of family life

According to psychologist Pham Hien, we often think that the other person is wrong and we are always right, so we rarely listen. This makes both sides more distant from each other and more pressured.

The second pressure in Vietnamese families comes from the old sayings of the elders, which are no longer true in modern times, that is "a spoiled child is the mother's fault, a spoiled grandchild is the grandmother's fault" or that the house must always be tidy and the food delicious and the soup sweet are all due to the woman.

We have such a point of view, so most Vietnamese men when coming home sit and watch TV, play games, and when they finish work early, go out to drink beer, chat..., leaving their wives and children at home to "wrestle" with each other.

This innocence and carefree nature of men is a pressure, fatigue, and boredom, making women feel stuck.

The third pressure is the refusal to change and adapt in family life. Each person always holds a very strong ego, even stubborn.When the other person wants to bond, wants to build a family in the best way possible, but uses the free ego of the time before having a family to force the other person to accept.

The fourth pressure is economic. This is something that we have little control over because we depend on others to make money. When we don't make money, we ignore it, then we get tired and stressed because our economy is not satisfied.

LiRegarding finances, in many families, the wife has to urge and remind her husband to give her money for living expenses, and even when the husband gives her money, he has a bad attitude, causing the wife to feel hurt in her self-esteem. There are women who appear indifferent but then become dissatisfied and feel that having a man by their side is like not having...

How to build family happiness

In today's society, women's acceptance and endurance are reduced, making them easily tired, even creating distance through provocation and abandonment to satisfy their ego.

To solve this problem, tIn every family, men should be less imposing and more open with their wives. Wives need to listen, encourage, and motivate, understanding that men always think more and act more than they say. Many women have not chosen the right time, place, and people, but they say whatever they want, wanting to open up and get close to their husbands, but they use interrogative, provocative words, and have a cold face, making men close themselves off and not want to share.

We should create openness and honesty for each other so that we can be each other's "brakes", helping each other change for the best, stopping each other from bad things that can happen, advancing together, retreating together, and when we need to stop, we stop together in listening and understanding../.