Help your child master "first love"
A young writer recently commented on Nghe An Newspaper with accurate and emotional lines to remind parents that: Whoever is a father or mother also has a teenage period, that they should not be too worried and especially worry incorrectly, leading to harsh words, actions and even prohibitions when their children show signs of "first love". Thank you very much, young writer, for those confidences!
(Baonghean) -A young writer recently commented on Nghe An Newspaper with accurate and emotional lines to remind parents that: Whoever is a father or mother also has a teenage period, that they should not be too worried and especially worry incorrectly, leading to harsh words, actions and even prohibitions when their children show signs of "first love". Thank you very much, young writer, for those confidences!
Any time and anyone, goes through periods of time with signs of "first love". One must have and go through "first love" to become an adult, to mature. Whether we want it or not, "first love" will exist, will come and then pass with each of our children. As parents, we must accept it and most importantly, we must know how to deal with it soberly, naturally as it is, must exist. Accept it to deal with it responsibly and with trust. "Letting go" of the child, leaving it alone is irresponsible. But imposing, even prohibiting, lacks understanding and is subjective and willful.
Our children today, when entering the age of "first vibrations in life", have enough knowledge, conditions, information... to grow from these vibrations into people: dutiful children, good citizens, good friends, then good husbands, good wives and... good fathers, good mothers... but also have to face a lot of information, conditions... that disturb, disrupt, disorient the first vibrations in life, and ultimately drag people into mistakes, even into sins. Therefore, fathers, mothers and children must be very alert to master the "first vibrations in life". The concern of fathers and mothers lies in knowing how to listen, knowing how to perceive to help their children master the "first vibrations in life".
With children, we need to make them understand that: They have thousands of opportunities to grow up, but at the same time they are also "living with" thousands of temptations to go bad. The time of "first love" is very short, but extremely delicate and important to a person's whole life. Young people who are entering and will enter the age of "first love" should cherish it and know how to master it!
The young writer has given some notes to parents. This old writer would also like to share a few things.
Truong Cong Anh
