"Be friends with me"

(Baonghean) The family has a niece, this year in grade 10. Living in a family of civil servants, the niece is taken care of quite carefully. That means the parents give their little princess all the best conditions: food, accommodation, clothes, school supplies and accompanied by a disciplined education: study hard, work hard, obey parents. Having been trained with those rules since childhood, the niece studies very well, is obedient and gentle.

In high school, the niece became a young woman, and many boys in her class and above noticed her. Many guys wrote letters, texted, gave gifts to express their feelings... at a young age, the niece had "infatuated" feelings. Instead of sympathizing, sharing, and confiding in their daughter, when they found out, the niece's parents made a fuss, cut off her phone, strictly forbade her from playing with friends of the opposite sex, and to supervise her, the father and mother took turns taking her to and from school.

The niece, who used to be cheerful and active, suddenly became quiet, depressed and her studies declined. As an only child, she had no siblings to share everything with, and her parents did not understand her age and did not listen to her, so she became more withdrawn and quiet...

To educate children to be good people, in addition to rules and family traditions, parents need to share their children's feelings, thereby giving them useful advice and guiding them emotionally, so that they can avoid unnecessary mistakes.

Nam Phuong