Kim Tuyen: 'My boyfriend broke up with me right after I did a bold sex scene'

Having had a broken marriage at the age of 23, Kim Tuyen returned to life as a single mother, working hard. Her boyfriend's warmth and patience made her open her heart again. The actress did not reveal the exact number of years, only saying that this relationship lasted for many years.

Admitting that she was unlucky in love, she lost her happiness after participating in the movie.Dream of Vanity, the film brought her the 3rd Golden Kite Award in 11 years of her career in the category of Best Actress. Her dedication to the role, acting in many hot scenes made her boyfriend unable to sympathize.

Confiding about her broken relationship, Kim Tuyen admitted her fault: "It's hard for an outsider to understand the sacrifices I make for my job. Even though he trusts me a lot, he still can't overcome the uncomfortable feeling when watching those scenes."

"The Golden Kite came to me well deserved"

- How do you feel after surpassing the sensational roles of Thuy Ngan in "Gạo nếp gạo tẻ" and Phuong Oanh in "Quynh bup be" to win the Golden Kite Award for Best Actress?

- My success is not a matter of luck. No matter what anyone says, I still feel worthy and fulfilled in my career.

During the film crew's party after the Golden Kite Award, the director told me that my acting in many scenes helped him to excel. If we were to film again now,Dream of VanityI couldn't have done better, because at that time I did the best I could.

Kim Tuyen affirmed that she deserved to win the Golden Kite Award for her role in Mong Phu Hoa.

-It must be admitted that the roles of Thuy Ngan and Phuong Oanh are two roles that caused a stir, reviving television dramas in the past year, while your film was rather quiet. Could you explain why you surpassed them?

- It's hard to judge for myself because I didn't watch all of your roles. When I watched the movie, I watched it from the perspective of an audience member and didn't focus on analyzing Thuy Ngan or Phuong Oanh's acting. But I clearly saw that you two played your roles well.

But the art council evaluates the multi-dimensionality of an actor's performance. The audience often finds it difficult to recognize this because they will be absorbed in the story, not focusing on any one character.

Furthermore, the subject inQuynh dollgoodGlutinous rice, white ricevery current. Young viewers will feel something very familiar in modern life, but withDream of VanityThe setting is 1912, nearly 100 years ago.

Starting out as an amateur actress, Kim Tuyen has now been in the profession for 11 years.

So the audience can watch and sympathize withDream of Vanityis very little, only 1/10 of the other films. If the Golden Kite has the most favorite award, Thuy Ngan will definitely get it.

- Many people think that the Golden Kite awards are "a draw for everyone". Thanks to that, even though you were criticized for your bad acting, you still won the award. What do you think?

- The audience has 9 out of 10 opinions, let alone the TV audience of tens of millions. Some viewers said my acting was stiff, others praised my acting as very natural.

So who should I listen to and how should I fix it? If I collapse because of one opinion, what's the point of those who support me and believe in me?

If I act badly but still get awarded time and time again, I think the art council and the jury of the award need to listen and evaluate.

"I don't shy away from hot scenes"

- Many people commented that when watching "Mong Phu Hoa", the impression they left was that there were too many hot scenes and these scenes were somewhat crude and lacked artistry. What is your response?

- This is the film with the most hot scenes I have ever acted in. In the film, I play a prostitute so hot scenes are necessary to portray the character's life. I don't know why people feel it is crude and unartistic.

From my perspective, the sensitive scenes in the film have been more restrained than in the short art films I have participated in. We are not allowed to show any skin, we are not allowed to do anything excessive. After filming 5 episodes, the crew has to edit and send it to the station for approval. If it is as excessive as everyone thinks, how can it be broadcast on national television?

- In those hot scenes, there were many scenes where you had to act with co-stars who were old enough to be your father, with bold details like being raped. Did you encounter any psychological barriers when filming those scenes?

- If the audience feels scared when watching those scenes, then we have succeeded. But outside, they are very cute. When doing hot scenes, they are usually more hesitant than me because they are afraid of being thought to be taking advantage of their female co-stars. At that time, I will discuss so that they can act comfortably. If there is any awkwardness or shyness, it means we are not professional.

The actress is not afraid or reluctant to act in hot scenes.

- It seems like you don't need to set limits for yourself because you act in many hot scenes in many other movies, not just "Mong phu hoa"?

- I never discuss or find ways to avoid hot scenes. But that doesn't mean I listen to whatever the director tells me to do. I only do hot scenes when I feel it's really necessary. And my limits also depend on each situation.

For example, in the movie, the director asked for the sex scene to be more passionate, but I objected. Because the role was a girl who was forced into marriage, without love, and without love, we could not be passionate. Luckily, most of my opinions were agreed by the director and my male co-star.

- How did your boyfriend react when he saw the violent scenes of you and your father-old colleague?

- My boyfriend and I broke up right after I finished filming.Dream of vanity.Even though he didn't say it officially, I understood that it was partly because of those sensitive scenes.

I think it was my fault. It was hard for an outsider to understand the sacrifices I made for my job. Even though he trusted me a lot, he still couldn't get over the discomfort of watching those scenes.

Kim Tuyen and her boyfriend broke up because he couldn't understand her doing hot scenes.

- Losing such a long-term relationship because of sensitive scenes, thinking back, do you think this trade-off is worth it?

- I always feel sorry and guilty for causing pain to the person I love. When I love, I always want to do everything to make my lover happy. But in the end, I still can't do it. I comfort myself that I have to do what makes both of us feel comfortable. At that time, when we were together, we were no longer comfortable, so breaking up was the right decision, so that he wouldn't suffer.

I am not very lucky in love because I choose work too much. But I think it is mostly because of me. What man would rush into a woman who only cares about work?

- After two broken relationships, are you over it now?

- I am still focusing on my work and do not want to make the same mistake again. I want to spend my youth on work, creating some achievements for myself rather than finding a man to rely on. I am not greedy, I want both of us to be complete, I do not want to hurt anyone because of me.

I put love in a very private corner. Even my parents couldn't touch it. I'm no longer the 19 or 20 year old me who listened to my parents' arrangements and got married too early.

I am not the type of person who goes around asking people what I should do. Even if I retire from acting in the future, I will only inform my family.