Advice from the 'third person'

(Baonghean.vn)- "You should know how to keep your husband in the wisest way, let him worry about the lustful eyes of other men when looking at you..."

She is a lecturer at a prestigious university, and he is a young doctor, both working in Hanoi, they met each other when they were both members of a group on social networks. Since the day she treated her stomach pain at his medical facility, their feelings became more and more intimate.

He was handsome, had a gentle voice and an open attitude. Not only was he calm and considerate when treating her, he also frequently reminded her about eating and living... her heart quickly fluttered after her first love broke up many years ago. She learned that he was not married.

They started dating, going to cafes more often, having lunch together more often and their feelings quickly became intimate. Then they fell in love. She cooked delicious dishes waiting for him to come home and spent the weekends together. She felt so happy in those moments.

Time passed, until one night in mid-August, it was pouring rain outside, she received a phone call from an unknown number, on the other end was a woman's voice.

- “Honey, from now on, don’t text my brother Thang anymore. I’ve known about this for a long time, but I’m just telling you today. I’m telling you so you know to stop before it’s too late.”

A little surprised, she said: "Sister, are you confusing me with someone else? Which Mr. Thang and who are you?"

The strange woman continued:

“Go to my Facebook, Van Anh N, who is friends with Thang, and you will see my family. He hid the fact that he has a wife, so there is no information about our family on Facebook. He also told many other girls the same thing. I am too used to these phone calls, so I advise you not to continue making the same mistake.”

At this point, she believed that everything about his family was true, her heart was a little choked up, she quickly typed on the computer keyboard to find her sister's facebook. Her personal page was filled with his image, even her profile picture was of her husband. She laughed out loud in relief and said to the heartbroken wife:

“Sister, I believe you, but I know your family is not happy, right? Don’t be angry when I ask that question. I know you love him, you love him so much that you want the whole world to know that he is yours. But you love him in the wrong way. Why do you have to suffer like this? I feel sorry for you, I am still young, but I would like to give you one piece of advice.

Before you love him, love that family, you should love yourself first. A smart woman needs to know how to keep her husband properly. You should go to the spa, get beautified, be beautiful and gorgeous, so that your husband will have to worry about the envious eyes of other men for you. Only then will you be happy.

Don’t sacrifice so much, sister. He cheated on you so many times that he went out to eat spring rolls and came back home when you found out. But he still received forgiveness from you? Why is your tolerance so cheap? So cheap to the point of being trivial?! How could you do that? I admire you for your endurance.”

The strange woman's voice revealed more clearly the choking pain:

“I am old and busy, I don’t have time to talk to you. The marriage law is very clear now, you should not continue having a relationship with my husband.”

She laughed out loud in relief: “Thanks for scaring me, that law has been in effect since July 1st this year. I am not the type to destroy other people’s family happiness. Trust me, just keep beautifying yourself, and he will be the one to hold you back. Bye.”

An Nhien(th)