MC Ky Duyen doesn't understand why she lives in America but only loves Vietnamese men.
Before Ky Duyen's confession, director Le Hoang said something that many people agreed with!
Recently intalk showmine, MCKy Duyenhad a conversation with director Le Hoang and businesswoman Hong Anh about the issue of "Women past and present". Here, Ky Duyen expressed her concerns about the fact that women are always imposed with "virtue, beauty, speech, and conduct".
Ky Duyen also said:"All those laws were set by men to keep women in line. But I think, as Mr. Le Hoang said, those laws are taught by women to their children: Mother-in-law teaches daughter-in-law, mother teaches herself, and if you do something wrong, the women will condemn you more than the men."
Director Le Hoang said thatg: "Because those morals have been covered with the 'glitter' of a tradition for many years. And then the women themselves defend it because they have experienced it, they feel frustrated but have no way out. And to let their daughter live, it is best to stuff her with that too."
Also in the program, director Le Hoang noticed that he often saw Western men holding hands with old Western women very affectionately, but it was very rare to see old Vietnamese men holding hands with old Vietnamese women. He said:"Respect old women, respecting old women is difficult, but respecting young women is easy. And the old Western man holding the old Western woman's hand is very affectionate, not just for the sake of holding it. I'm a director, I can tell by the way he holds hands affectionately."
When Ky Duyen asked the male director if he ever held his wife's hand when going out, he exclaimed:"Oh my god, never not! Hoang is not the type of person who says one thing but treats his wife differently. Hoang is extremely respectful to his wife."
Ky Duyen expressed:"I think what Mr. Hoang said is true. But for me, even though I'm in America, I still find that in the end I can only love Vietnamese men. I don't understand why. I can only love Vietnamese men even though everything you said is true."
Director Le Hoang responded: "Ky Duyen, you don't have a very important comment. That is, you only love Vietnamese men in America. Do you love Vietnamese men in Vietnam?"MC Nguyen Cao Ky Duyen laughed and said she had never seen it before.
The male director continued:"The people I know are no different from those American men, just different skin color. They grew up like that, they studied like that, they speak English like that, they just have Vietnamese roots. And a little Vietnamese is more attractive than a completely Western man. But if there are 10 parts of them, at least 7 parts are American."
Ky Duyen also agreed, but she asked businesswoman Hong Anh to "defend Vietnamese men a little". This businesswoman said that she also loves a Vietnamese man in Vietnam, but this man has a rather Western way of thinking. Hong Anh added:"I myself am not purely a Vietnamese woman, I am very influenced by European culture. When I fall in love, I don't distinguish between skin color, nationality, age, or status, but I will definitely care about whether two people are compatible, whether they take advantage of each other, and whether they can develop together?"
In her private life, Ky Duyen has gone through two failed marriages and has had a long-term relationship, both of whom are of Vietnamese origin. The first time was with a doctor, they had two daughters together. Ky Duyen met the second man of her life, a lawyer 1 year younger than her, who settled in Australia since childhood. The MC's most recent public relationship was with businessman boyfriend David Duy Han, 8 years younger than her.
In the previous issue when discussing the issue "Should I love a young man", Ky Duyen said:"There's no way a twenty-something year old would have enough knowledge and experience for me to respect. If I were always leading them around like my own child, how could I love them? We can still like each other for a short time, a few days or a few months. But we have to affirm that it's for fun, not something to love, or to consider the future. Men who are too young don't have the ability to cherish and understand women like an older man."
She also said she had talked to many guys around 30 years old. These guys were not happy with the jealousy and childishness when dating a young girl, but they felt comfortable with older women: "CThere are many things they feel they have learned and experienced better than an 18, 19 year old girl who is always jealous, crying and demanding to get married. Meanwhile, older women do not need to get married, just need to come together, go out, love each other without having to have other obligations. It is also comfortable, right?
Ky Duyen and her young boyfriend Duy Han were together for 10 years but are said to have broken up. Ky Duyen once said that many people thought that the relationship between her and Duy Han was not love, but she did not think so:"I am the person involved, more than anyone I understand that maybe the passionate love between the couple is no longer there, but there is still affection and family affection, and to that extent, if the other person does something to make them happy, I will also be happy for them, even if his happiness does not include me. Both of us still have and need affection for each other."
Ky Duyen said that the two are still close friends and still keep in touch with each other. She also said that the best thing about this relationship is that in 10 years, no one has held anyone back, everyone gives the other person freedom, no strings attached. Therefore, both of them still joke and are very sincere with each other, assuming that if he meets someone else and feels feelings, then just go out and so does she.