MC Thao Van after 13 years of divorce from Cong Ly: 'I'm single but not lonely'

MC Thao Van is loved by many people as a veteran MC of a series of programs.Meet at the weekend, Gala laugh, Tao Quan...Every time she appears, she always leaves an impression with her soulful voice and gentle, graceful presentation style.

Stick withThe Kitchen GodsSince the first episode in 2003, Thao Van has worked with the program crew for nearly 20 years. She is not only a companion in the program but also a close friend of many participating artists.The Kitchen Gods.

Thao Van said that she is living a simple but cozy life. During the day, she fulfills her responsibilities as a civil servant at the Trade Union Office of Hanoi National University. At night, she gathers with her intelligent and filial son or finds joy in chatting with friends.

MC Thao Van is a familiar and beloved host of the show "Meeting at the end of the year - Tao Quan" (Photo: VTV).

"Tao Quan" is happiness and pride

"Tao Quan 2023" is a special program, marking 20 years of broadcasting. Will you participate as a host like previous years?

- This year,The Kitchen Gods20th anniversary of the show. It was a huge event so I had to be there.

"Tao Quan" is a team that has been together for a record amount of time, with more than 20 years of companionship. Do you have any special memories you want to share about the program?

-Actually, in the past 20 years, not only me, but all the members of the crew have had many emotions and memories. So many that if you ask me what is the most memorable, it is really hard to say. We met and accompanied each other throughout our youthful years. Now, we have passed the age of "going to the other side of the mountain", our hair is all gray, but we are still close to each other. It is truly wonderful!

The program also left a very beautiful impression on the audience. That means our efforts are recognized. That is an incomparable happiness and pride.

Do you have any particular favorite role?

-It is difficult for me to choose, because each Tao has its own color, very interesting. The artists are really good, to the point that when they portray a character, the audience immediately loves it and forgets the previous Tao role they played. That shows how talented each person is, so it is difficult for me to choose and have a preference for anyone.

It will be difficult to find a replacement cast for the current generation of artists in the future. It is a golden generation that I cherish very much!

MC Thao Van confirmed to participate in "Tao Quan 2023".

Love story, still waiting for fate

Your career is stable and you are loved by many audiences, but your love life seems to be quieter. Do you still have no intention of moving forward with someone new after the breakups?

- I don't actively look for someone new, because this is fate. You can't just look for them. If you have the chance, they will come without any expectations. At this time, maybe the chance hasn't come yet, so I don't have anyone. That's all.

You say you're waiting for fate, but surely, like other women, you have expectations when it comes to love?

- I don't expect anything. When we meet someone who is compatible in many ways, we will come together. As for expectations, how can we know what to expect?

It's not that I'm afraid of getting too hopeful and being disappointed. I just think that when we get together, we shouldn't put pressure on ourselves and each other. Just let things happen naturally. If both sides accept, understand and love each other, that's good. If not, that's normal. That's life. We just accept what happens, don't expect or set any goals in love.

Do you feel sad when people still refer to Thao Van as "Cong Ly's ex-wife"?

-Why be sad? It’s the truth. I just feel sorry for Mr. Ly’s new family. We’ve been separated for 12 years now, about to enter our 13th year, I just want Mr. Ly and his family to be at peace.

For me personally, everything happened so long ago, there is no need to mention it again. I also do not know why people have to attach me to a certain title or character. I am Thao Van, I also have my own position.

Breaking up but still maintaining a good relationship with both her ex-husband and his new wife. Many people say that is a rare civility. As someone involved, how do you feel?

- Civilized or noble depends on each person's perspective. I don't think that much, I just do what is right for me. We have a son together so there will be exchanges so that he can feel the love of both father and mother. Everything I do is aimed at comfort and peace for both sides.

Have you ever experienced the feeling of insecurity as a woman living alone?

- It would be a lie if I said I have never been insecure. But I believe that how I deal with that feeling is important. If I stay calm and slowly resolve it, it will be fine. Moreover, I am only single in my marriage, but in life, I have a big family, children, grandchildren, siblings, and friends by my side! I am single but not alone. The feeling of insecurity therefore comes and goes quickly.

MC Thao Van and her son (Photo: character's Facebook).

Stable health, but still forgetful

Up to now, you have lived with left cerebral atrophy for 8 years. How is your health now?

- My health is stable. To be exact, I have calcification of the left cerebral hemisphere. This is a common disease that can happen to anyone. I just got it a little earlier than everyone else. Currently, I am still taking medicine to nourish my brain, so my condition has many positive signs.

As for memory, it's true that I'm forgetful. But that's normal. Many people are more forgetful than me. I often tease my friends, saying that Thao Van is forgetful, but if she owes me money, will I remember? Changing the subject is fatal to me (laughs).

Did your family encourage you during your treatment?

- Actually, my family doesn't consider my illness a serious problem, so everyone is very relaxed. Things get pushed too far because of some websites. Sometimes, there are newspaper headlines that even surprise me. Many stories I just joke about on my personal page, but are turned into something terrible, very serious. I am very upset about this, because it not only affects me, but also affects those who love and care about me.

Many times when I receive questions from relatives and friends, I have to laugh and cry to explain. I hope everyone understands my illness correctly and does not push things too far.

MC Thao Van enjoys a gentle, peaceful single life.

Little Tit is very independent and has been conscious of earning money to help his mother since early on. What is your secret to raising children?

- Actually, I don't have any special secret. I just try to share with my child as much as possible, so that he always feels comfortable talking to me. If there is anything difficult, he can talk to me to find a solution.

I also try to rejuvenate myself, be more open to young people's ideas and accept many things when accompanying my children.

Closing the old stories of 2022, what do you expect in the upcoming year 2023?

- I hope 2023 will also bring many new things and new joys to me. I also wish for a peaceful life for myself, my loved ones and everyone. I just hope that, a year where everyone is happy and peaceful.

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