On Vietnamese Family Day June 28: Husband's fear and wife's worry

In the family, men have many fears and women have many worries. But all men's fears are for the happiness of the family, just like women's worries are also for the happiness of the family. When men come home without fear and women without worry, the family will no longer exist.

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Two fears of men

*Afraid of wife nagging: A man has a thousand mistakes that make him nag his wife: Coming home late - getting nagged by his wife; making a mistake in a transaction - getting nagged by his wife; not doing his homework properly - getting nagged by his wife; drinking too much - getting nagged by his wife...

Women's nagging is torture for men. Even if they are eloquent men, they cannot be eloquent in this situation. If only they could talk about five or ten things, it would be less stressful, but most men do not have that "talent". The simplest solution men often use to avoid nagging is the trick of lying. Buy a pair of shoes worth 1 million VND as a gift for your wife but only say: "500 thousand VND, do you think they are beautiful?". If they come home a little late, they make up excuses like a broken car, traffic jam... To avoid nagging, men can lie about anything, except when they cannot "return their homework" properly, then they are helpless.

*Fear of women's tears: Women's tears always make men confused. They feed her when she's hungry, give her medicine when she's sick, but when she cries, the husband doesn't know what to use to stop her crying. Women's tears are heavier than lead, and can distort a man's thinking and behavior. Men are like steel, women's tears are like a special kind of water. If it's too hard, it will be tempered to soften it, if it's too soft, it will be tempered to be harder.

Women have many worries

*Take care of meals and sleep for husband and children: Women have thousands of worries, the smallest of which is the food and clothing of their husbands and children. Every day, women worry about how to make sure their husbands and children eat clean food at every meal, not contaminated with chemicals, not sprayed with insecticides, not soaked in anti-rotting chemicals... A clean and delicious meal at the end of the day is a woman's pride.

*Take care of both paternal and maternal sides: A slightly bigger worry for women is to worry about getting their children married, worrying about the funerals and happy events of both the paternal and maternal sides, worrying about the death anniversaries of their husband's family... Many women are so busy worrying about these things that they forget to worry about themselves. When the children grow up and the paternal and maternal sides are settled, the worry is already etched on their faces. When they suddenly see themselves in the mirror, their youth is gone.

*Worried that husband has a mistress: The biggest worry of women is that their husbands have a mistress. For men, the ideal space is a vast life with endless work, plans and hundreds of thousands of social relationships. But women's favorite space is the family, the kitchen, the dining room, the bedroom - where there is the aroma of new rice and the chirping of children. The family is a woman's golden cage. The chirping of children, the warm breath of the husband, the warm meal at the end of the day are all as sweet as ripe fruit to women. Because women consider the family to be an ideal space, after work, women rush home to cook, even if they have to walk in the rain and wind, but thinking about the family makes the long distance seem shorter. It is also because the family is a woman's golden cage that women are very worried about their husbands having a mistress. Only when a woman is both a wife, a mother and a lover of her husband, will happiness be lasting. A wise woman will know how to renew herself, so that her husband will always be attracted to her. There is nothing more boring than repetition. Every day the same food, the same smile, the same dress, the same perfume… There is only one sentence that men never get bored of, “I love you”. A smart woman does not repeat these three sentences like a parrot, empty words, but knows how to whisper them in each other’s ears when they are very close to each other.

Men have many fears and women have many worries. However, all the worries of women and all the fears of men are for the happiness of the family. If in the family, men have no more fears of their wives, women have no more worries, then the family will also disappear. Therefore, husbands and wives, do not complain about your fears or worries in the family. Because as long as there are many fears and worries, your family is happy.

According to Giadinh.net