Things to do to become a psychological parent in the eyes of your child
Turn off the TV, put down your phone, make eye contact with your child, and always listen.
In this world of technology and social media, children are often easily immersed in the virtual world, so how can parents remind, advise and become understanding parents in their children's eyes?
Don't neglect your child mentally.
Always pay attention to your child, take every opportunity to pick them up from school, take every moment to talk to them. Pay attention and share about your child's day at school, ask, confide and together find a reasonable solution to your child's problems with you. This way you will build your child's trust and they will share with you all their problems.
Don't rush, panic, or get angry when your child makes a mistake.
People always make mistakes, unless you do nothing. So when you know your child has made a mistake or made a mistake, take your time to research and find a reasonable solution with your child. Then you can remind them to pay attention to avoid making the same mistake in the future.
Together as a united group
Always create a united and happy atmosphere in the family. Everyone participates in housework or local charity work. Regularly organize short or long picnics with the choice being unified and reaching the consensus of all members.
Do not impose on your child
Learn to respect children, respect their opinions, choices and views. If your child has incorrect views or is behaving inappropriately, use reasonable arguments to advise and debate in the most equal way. Absolutely avoid imposing your views or rejecting your child's opinions in a rude manner.
Let children solve their own problems.
Let your children learn to make their own decisions and sometimes let them solve their own problems. They will not learn useful lessons or experience failure, and become less confident if you often make decisions for them. Experiencing the consequences of failure is sometimes a very good lesson.
Reinforce your child's values
Reinforce good decisions your child makes. Praise hard work that is done well. Praise your child's strengths and encourage them in areas where they are thriving. Never compare your child to anyone else.
Prioritize time for children anytime, anywhere
Sometimes you have to give up necessary and legitimate responsibilities to prioritize family time. There are also times when you have to stop what you are doing and spend time with your children. Make sure they know that they always come first. Make sure they know that you love them and that you are there for them when they need you.