Where personality originates

Many families have paid a high price for not taking their home seriously. It could be that the father or mother has a degenerate personality, is dominated by a lifestyle for money, selfishness, jealousy, pettiness... so family life cannot be smooth, comfortable, lacks human culture, behavioral culture, "the house leaks from the roof" will produce spoiled children, at least self-conscious, have difficulty integrating into community life, have no awareness, or lack of self-awareness. From there, in daily life, inhumane behaviors arise. Even in adolescence, children born into unhappy families have committed illegal acts in many ways. That could be theft, fighting, causing trouble; robbery, extortion, even murder. As for those who have reached adulthood, they easily fall into depraved lifestyles, disregarding discipline and the law of the land, and overturning the traditional values ​​of the nation. Cases in recent years have proven that to us.

Most of the spoiled children have deep-rooted causes from their families such as lack of care, training, education, parents abandoning and not being responsible for their children... in these children, their "immunity" is very poor and they quickly become infected with bad habits that are already present in the negative environment in society...

On the contrary, in families that truly become "homes", knowing how to live in harmony, share, love, help, and trust each other will certainly give birth to filial, gentle, and kind children. There, there is no room for competition, arrogance, or conceit, but rather the companionship of tolerance, "when the older sister falls, the younger sister helps", and respect for elders and juniors. The warmth of the family will create children who grow up with forgiveness, love, and generosity. Many families with good family traditions have confided that: The most important thing that parents can do to help their children develop and perfect good personalities is to live a warm life, knowing how to love and respect each other. Family happiness is a good foundation for the development of children's personality and morality. Along with love and kindness must be strictness.

The family is the cell of society, the place where children are formed, educated and trained in character. Only when the family is healthy can the society develop healthily. Therefore, preserving the family home and maintaining family traditions will help children form and develop good behaviors and personalities. It is thought that all levels, sectors, mass organizations, especially the Women's Union, the Committee for Population, Family and Children, need to regularly promote propaganda and raise awareness of each member in the community and society about building a cultured family, understanding the law, health, and a healthy life. Joining hands to build a family home, protecting members from the attacks of social evils, turning the family into a safe haven after the storms of life to forever maintain good behaviors and personalities of people must be the noble goal of each person and of the whole community.

Van Anh; photo: Duc Quang -BNA