Women should avoid these things for a happy marriage

Sometimes it is just unintentional, but what the wife does makes the marriage tense, even deadlocked. Below are some mistakes that wives often make that women need to pay attention to.

1. Talk a lot, talk long

Nearly 90% of husbands said they were scared every time they thought about their wives talking all day long about everything from trivial matters to children and petty annoyances at home. Or just talking about the same thing over and over again also made husbands extremely uncomfortable.

2. Insulting and interpreting your husband's actions

When you are angry, it is difficult to control your actions and words. Surely you will say harsh words, even scold and insult your husband without mercy. Sometimes the words you say can hurt your husband very much.

Sometimes women even imagine many terrible and terrible things and judge their husbands and think that what they say is always right. However, be careful because such words can make the couple more distant from each other. So control your anger or find something else to attract your attention to relieve your anger.

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3. Beating children to warn husband is a taboo in married life.

Many wives, when they have a conflict with their husbands, often beat their children as a way to vent their anger. At that time, their love for their children is suppressed by their anger towards their husbands, so they cannot control themselves. But after beating them, many problems arise that are just as painful as when they argue with their husbands.

4. Badmouthing your husband

Many wives like to tell their husbands' bad habits to neighbors, friends, and colleagues, unintentionally giving them a bad impression of their husbands.

When husbands find out that their wives gossip about them, they will feel very disappointed, ashamed, and lose face, and will most likely get angry with their wives.

5. Threaten your husband with divorce

Even if the couple often quarrels and has serious arguments, women should never think about breaking up or threatening their husbands with divorce. Maybe your husband will think that you do not value this marriage, that you consider married life as a joke. Repeatedly like that will make your husband tired and may agree to divorce you. At that time, it will be too late to regret and hold on.

6. Walk out during an argument

When a wife leaves during an argument, it is like she is looking down on her husband. Don’t think that leaving is an opportunity for both of you to calm down. That is wrong. Husbands will be even more upset when their wives leave in the middle of an argument. Not only that, it creates a series of suspicions from husbands. No matter where the wife goes, when she returns, she will definitely have to answer dozens of questions like: “Where did you go while we were arguing?”, “Did you go to your ex-lover while you were arguing with me?”… And no matter how the wives explain, it is difficult to regain their husbands’ trust in their marriage.

According to Phunutoday