What should I do with my blindly jealous husband?

(Baonghean.vn) - I absolutely do not want to tell my story because it is not interesting. However, I really need to share, need to be sober to solve the story of my life at this time.

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My husband and I have been in love since high school. We were in the same class. He was the class monitor and the math genius of the class. I was not an excellent student, but I was an active person and the nucleus of the cultural and artistic movement not only of the class but of the entire district school.

When we were still in school, I never paid any attention to him, if anything, it was just out of admiration for the talented class monitor. But we ended up together, that was the year I was both a third-year student at the University. We studied in Hanoi, staying near each other. He studied at the University of Transport and I studied Pedagogy.

Perhaps as people say “fire near straw” we fell in love without realizing it. He is quite a flirt, but also a difficult person, very jealous. However, I always thought that it was because he loved me so much that he became so cruel.

I ignored all the advice from my family and friends to be with him. We returned to our hometown and got married right after we both graduated and had jobs.

At first, our family life was very happy, but that happiness did not last long. I was shocked by my partner. He was blindly and extremely jealous.

Meanwhile, I have always been an active, dynamic person and often an artist of the school where I work. In addition to my time in the classroom, I also participate in the school's performance activities. Honestly, there were times when I was not interested in anything, but it was also because of the general movement of the school and the students.

I explained to him a thousand times but he refused to understand. One time, out of jealousy, my husband grabbed a knife and chased after a colleague who taught at the same school as me because we sang the same song on stage. He imagined everything. Sometimes I don't even understand who I'm with every day and every night, who I'm trying so hard for.

For the sake of my family and my children, I gave up my dream job at school. I moved to work at a construction company near my house. This job was also arranged by my husband. He thought that the company director was his friend, and that living near home would be more convenient. I knew in my mind that my husband just wanted to easily monitor and manage his wife. However, I accepted.

But no one can hold hands all day. Although he is my husband's friend, the director of the company where I work is a person with a completely opposite personality. He is serious and very thoughtful. I work in an office but sometimes when I come back from work, he stops by, sometimes giving me dried squid, sometimes giving me a bunch of clean vegetables.

He said: “To T, long time no see.” That was all, but when I returned home, my husband kept saying: “He has feelings for you.” He even imagined disgusting images that I didn’t expect.

Once I was forced to take money from the agency to the construction site to serve the logistics for the technical construction team to work overtime. While I was busy cooking on the side of the road, the director suddenly stopped by and said: "T is standing on the side of the road over there."

I felt so shameless. So ashamed. Not knowing what else to say, I went out to the street to hail a taxi home and gathered all my belongings, took my child and went to my parents' house. I couldn't take it anymore. And I really hope everyone can tell me what I should do now.

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* Title by Nghe An Newspaper