10 things if you do you will easily conquer a difficult mother-in-law

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Just follow these simple tricks below and you will easily win over your future mother-in-law and become her friend.

1. Respect your mother-in-law

This is a must in any relationship. Respect, even without affection, can create a bitter feeling but is seen in a more positive light. Your mother-in-law has her own personality. You can hardly find anything in common between you and her. However, her values, her decisions… need to be respected. Apart from all this, you should trust her.

2. Learn about your mother-in-law

Take the initiative to start a friendly conversation with her. This way, you will get a golden opportunity to understand your mother-in-law better.

Let her tell you about her childhood, her college days, and maybe even how she got along with her mother-in-law. Who knows, you might get some helpful advice about what she expects from you.

3. Don't criticize her

Sometimes, it may seem like your mother-in-law is taking over everything in the house with her authority, perhaps even to the point of making others extremely uncomfortable. At such times, don't explode and criticize, instead be polite and let her know that you have your own way of doing things.

4. Get advice from her

Seek her help. It could be about anything in your life – like your relationship with your spouse is struggling. However, when it comes to sensitive issues involving her son, things need to be conveyed in a very matter-of-fact way, not by saying that he is the culprit. Because this can make things worse.

5. Make her feel special

Your mother-in-law will love it when she gets special attention. Most people never celebrate birthdays or anniversaries when they get older. So make her days memorable by throwing parties and of course, giving her a gift. Let her do what she likes and take good care of her.

6. Share your interests

If you have any interests with your mother-in-law, that's great. You have something to bond over. Even if you don't have anything in common with her, ask her if she'd like to join you in what you're doing. Or maybe take the initiative to help revive long-lost interests or things she used to love the most.

7. Invite your mother-in-law to go out or go shopping together.

How about taking your mother-in-law shopping or hanging out with you? Or if you and your mother-in-law are both movie buffs, why not go see a movie together? Or you can also take your mother-in-law on a vacation for a day or two. These relaxing moments will help strengthen your relationship with your mother-in-law.

8. Don't compete with her

You need to know who you are and who she is, so your role cannot be changed. If she cleans the kitchen better, let her do it that way. Remember never to try to “overtake” her and make her efforts useless. If she wants to put your child to bed, let her do it and don’t be stubborn.

9. Try calling her mom

This is not easy to do because you already have a mother and no one else can replace your mother. However, try calling your mother-in-law mom and you will surely receive all the love and affection that your mother-in-law has for you.

10. Keep in touch with your mother-in-law regularly

If you don’t live with your mother-in-law, then this is a must. Keep in touch with your mother-in-law by updating her about your family through pictures. Or visit her whenever possible to check on her. Or simply call her and ask her how she is doing. She will really appreciate your efforts.

According to Giadinh.net

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