9 psychological rules men and women should understand

The male mind is like a linear trajectory where quite a lot of it is just simple, black or white thoughts.

On the contrary, women always have complicated thoughts, maybe even think a bit too much compared to what is happening in reality. But instead of thinking too much, learn to grasp men's psychology to understand and sympathize.

1. Can men read women's minds?

The answer is NO! Most men cannot read women’s minds. Unless women say what they want, men will be like “heartless” people who cannot fully understand their girlfriends’ thoughts. They like something, but say they don’t want their lover to do it for them. And by default, men will automatically understand what she said. Don’t feel confused, because men’s brains are structured like that.

2. Women's tears - a terrible threat!

Men are not afraid of bloodshed or big difficulties or hand-to-hand combat, but if there is something that makes men feel confused and serious, it is the tears of their girlfriends. This is a weakness of men, so almost every girl has exploited it at least once to control her man quite effectively.

Men are not afraid of bloodshed or big difficulties or hand-to-hand combat, but if there is something that makes men feel confused and serious, it is the tears of their girlfriends. This is a weakness of men, so almost every girl has exploited it at least once to control her man quite effectively.

3. Men rarely understand hints from women

A girl likes a man, and obviously she will not dare to say it directly but leave green light signals. It can be subtle, strong or obvious signals but men will not recognize any hints from women, unless the ladies say what they want. Don't just mumble without expressing your feelings and then frown slightly when you see him falling into the arms of another hot girl.

4. Men's answers are simple and straightforward.

Women often have a rather unpleasant habit of asking a lot of questions to twist their lover or the person they like. Usually they will ask questions with the condition that if the guy loves her or if he really loves her with all his heart, then answer that question. Men often tend to answer simply “Yes” or “No”, but it seems that is not enough for girls. It makes them feel like it is a love monologue that leads to disappointment after what the girl expects, the girls just dig their own graves of love.

5. Hate hearing the same old story being rehashed over and over again.

Women have a habit of retelling what happened in the argument between the two of them that happened a few months ago. Men hate it when women rub old wounds and torment their spirit. If you don’t want your guys to feel negative about the relationship, stop doing that.

6. Tired of being complained about too many small details

Messiness is a natural part of many men’s nature, let alone forcing them to pay attention to the little details when going to the toilet, like opening the toilet lid and closing it after finishing, wiping the glass after showering, neatly folding the bed after waking up… Do such small things need to create a war? Of course not. Men don’t complain when women make similar small mistakes, so why shouldn’t they be treated similarly? Please give us some sympathy, ladies…

7. For men, saying and doing are two similar things.

Men cannot understand how women always interpret negatively what men think, and say one thing and do another. When men are serious, what they say is what they are thinking or doing, men can rarely say anything other than their true feelings. And a real man rarely makes promises because he understands the responsibility and importance of promises, and he likes freedom.

8. Men cannot understand women's shopping preferences.

When men look at a woman’s wardrobe and shoe rack, they don’t understand why with such a huge collection of clothes, women always complain that they don’t have enough clothes to wear when going out, even though there are things they only wear once. When going shopping with women, men are lost in a maze, they don’t understand how women can spend hours walking around shopping malls and can distinguish between the beauty and ugliness of two pairs of high heels that seem to men to be completely the same? These are questions that will never be answered!

9. Tired of being asked about their weight all the time by women

Why do you always turn men into “villains” when asking such questions? It seems that women often like to torture men with “House of Flying Daggers” type questions like this, men have to know how to answer: Thin – you lied to me; Fat – I know, you don’t love me anymore; Silent – ​​Why don’t you say anything, are you bored with me, do you have someone else? Either way, men are always put in a difficult position, what can we do?

Hopefully through this article, women will understand more or less the psychology of men, what men want to say but find it difficult to say, and at the same time it is also for those who cannot find a way to express their "frustration" to their girlfriends.

According to Phunutoday