Give each other a chance to listen and express.

In any relationship, respect is always the key to bonding. And of course, the same goes for family. Husband and wife, no matter what happens, should listen to each other, to solve the problem in the most thorough way...

No one is perfect. Therefore, to improve relationships and make love closer, each of us should learn to change our thinking in a more positive and optimistic direction. One of them is not to rush to criticize, but to listen and give each other a chance to express.

As husband and wife, we should give each other the opportunity to listen and confide. Illustration photo

There is a story like this: “Seeing her son holding two apples in his hands, the mother tried to ask: Can you give me one? The child looked at his mother and immediately took a bite of each apple. At that moment, the mother’s heart suddenly felt an indescribable sense of loss. However, something unexpected happened. Right after finishing the two apples, the son immediately gave his mother an apple and said: “This one is sweeter, this is for you, Mom!”

Married life is the same. Sometimes what you see and hear is not necessarily the core of the problem. Therefore, do not be quick to criticize or judge your partner.

Be calm, listen without thinking about how you will respond. Ignore the negative thoughts that are rushing through your head, just open your heart, use your ears to listen to the other person confess, confide in things that are difficult to say, things buried deep in the heart...

The next step in listening is to give each other a chance to express themselves. Don’t lump things together. It’s unfair to always be ready to hold your thoughts in your hands and throw them at others, assuming they are… exactly like you.

Don't criticize or blame each other, give each other a chance to explain, and then find the most appropriate solution to the situation. Only then will your marriage avoid many things that will make you regret later.

Time never comes back, behave so that you never have to say "if only"...

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