Give each other a chance to listen and express.

In any relationship, respect is always the key to bonding. And of course, the same goes for family. No matter what happens, husband and wife should listen to each other to solve the problem in the most thorough way...

No one is perfect. Therefore, to improve relationships and make love closer, each of us should learn to change our thinking in a more positive and optimistic direction. One of them is not to rush to criticize, but to listen and give each other a chance to express themselves.

As husband and wife, we should give each other the opportunity to listen and confide. Illustration photo

There is a story like this: “Seeing her son holding two apples in his hands, the mother tried to guess: Can I have one? The child looked at his mother and immediately took a bite of each apple. At that moment, the mother’s heart suddenly felt an indescribable sense of loss. However, something unexpected happened. Right after finishing the two apples, the son immediately gave his mother an apple and said: “This one is sweeter, this is for you, Mom!”

Married life is the same. Sometimes what you see and hear is not necessarily the core of the problem. Therefore, do not rush to criticize or judge your partner.

Be calm, listen without thinking about how you will respond. Ignore the negative thoughts that are buzzing in your head, just open your heart, use your ears to listen to the other person confess, confide in things that are difficult to say, things buried deep in the heart...

The next step in listening is to give each other a chance to express themselves. Don’t lump everything together. It would be unfair if you were always ready to hold your thoughts in your hands and throw them at others, assuming that they are… exactly like what you are speculating.

Don't criticize or blame each other, give each other a chance to explain, and then find the most appropriate way to handle the situation. Only then will your marriage avoid many things that will make you regret later.

Time never comes back, behave so that you never have to say "if only"...

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