I take better care of my family since my wife forgave me.

For now, I'm doing well in all aspects. I give all the money I earn to my wife to spend. After work, I come home to my wife and children. After dinner, I watch TV with my wife and children. Every few days, I take my wife and children out.

We came together with much joy and happiness, the days of going out and living together before getting married were really wonderful. I think nowadays, after college, when we have a career, everyone is like that when they fall in love, then society "forces" us to get married. That is the rule of Asian people, if we don't get married, society will criticize, especially the woman's family. I also feel that it is unfair for my lover to live together without getting married like that. We have known each other since we were young, but we got together and really got to know each other about 18 months before deciding to get married. I asked myself many questions, including whether I love my lover? I think yes, my lover also loves me very much. In addition, God's fate gave us many advantages before deciding to get married: We have our own house, both have stable jobs, favorable economy, both families support, friends are also excited about the wedding (that is a big catalyst). We have all the right time, place, and people. Ending with a wedding is a beautiful ending like a Korean movie.

After getting married, the external factors were all great, we traveled often, divided the housework reasonably, our careers progressed well after work. We were always together, going out, eating, watching movies, sharing everything about life and work, sharing joys and sorrows, every day we talked a lot and hugged each other to sleep. So many memories, so many that I can't count them all. Then we also had good news, we both like boys, and we also have boys. What could be better than that in life. After a while of marriage, you must be curious, what's the problem?

My wife's side: My wife is mostly fine, I'm satisfied. My wife is a little lazy but I'm lazy too so we're even. We leave everything to the machines. Housework is divided equally, my wife goes to the market and I cook, my wife cleans the room and I clean downstairs, when everything is done I go out. My wife's personality is upright and fierce, during arguments I always endure. Later my mother-in-law also had to endure my wife, I'm not happy with this but I have to accept that nature, I can't change it, no matter how we talk back and forth we argue. There are some right and some wrong but usually I always endure my wife, but this ratio has decreased over the years. My nature is patient and my wife is strong.

I like having a good wife but she is too fierce, my wife likes a good husband who does not play around and I am a playboy. We should have made this clear to each other from the beginning of our relationship, but when you love someone, you do not paint a beautiful picture or imagine good things. I regret it very much, I should not have tolerated too many things from the beginning and told them all the bad things, who knows the outcome of the story would have gone in a completely different direction, that could have been better for both of us. If I have any advice for everyone, I think you should clearly express your likes and dislikes, do not keep it in your heart or ignore it because keeping it in your heart will eventually turn into a disease. Do not ask why, only those who have been married for more than 5 or 10 years will understand.

As for me: I like freedom by nature, gambling, smoking, drinking, all kinds of entertainment, boys and girls, I don't like any of them. That means I can do anything, so I don't know what I like, but since I got married, I've been with her everywhere. I sometimes feel unhappy about this, but having a wife "have to put up with it", I often share this with my wife but it doesn't change anything, I have to report wherever I go, come home early, that's fine, come home late it's tiring for both of us because we'll argue. I was caught cheating once with a college girl, and we got divorced. I decided that I was just playing around and erased her image without thinking, immediately chose my wife, at that time my wife and children were everything to me, so my wife forgave me.

Maybe after this forgiveness she loves herself more, I think that's right. After all, I'm not a very good person, also selfish. Currently, my family, friends, colleagues and we see this love and marriage as still beautiful as a dream. For now, I'm good in all aspects, I give all the money I earn to my wife to spend, after work I come home to my wife and children, after dinner I watch TV with my wife and children, every few days I take my wife and children to the children's playground, on the weekends I go drinking with both families or friends. Occasionally I take my wife and children on a trip somewhere, I do anything to make my wife and children happy.

My wife wants to keep this happiness for one more day for our children, so she will do her best to keep it that day. When a woman loves her husband and children, they are truly great. I feel that I am not as good as my wife when I cannot give up my nature, just like she cannot give up her aggressive and controlling personality. I love freedom and want to have free and comfortable moments, I signed up to go to the gym in the morning, my wife insisted on going with me, I feel tired of this but can't change anything, she is like that. Every time I am sad, I think how nice it would be if I were still single, because then I can live freely in my true nature. I know it is wrong but I can't stop thinking like that. If I were single, I would never marry anyone else except my wife, I know I will love her for the rest of my life.

According to VNE