I take better care of my family since my wife forgave me.

For now, I'm doing well in all aspects. I give my wife all the money I earn to spend. After work, I come home to my wife and children. After dinner, I watch TV with my wife and children. Every few days, I take my wife and children out.

We came together with much joy and happiness, the days of going out and living together before getting married were really wonderful. I think nowadays, after college, when we have a career, everyone is like that when they fall in love, then society "forces" us to get married. That is the rule of Asians, if we don't get married, society will criticize, especially the woman's family. I also feel that it would be unfair for my lover to live together without getting married like that. We have known each other since we were young, but we got together and really got to know each other's lives about 18 months before deciding to get married. I asked myself many questions, including whether I love my lover? I think yes, my lover also loves me very much. In addition, God's fate gave us many advantages before deciding to get married: We have our own house, both have stable jobs, favorable finances, both families support, and friends are also excited about the wedding (that is a big catalyst). We have all the right time, place, and people. Ending with a wedding is a beautiful ending like a Korean movie.

After getting married, the external factors were all great, we traveled often, divided the housework reasonably, our careers progressed well after work. We were always together, going out, eating, watching movies, sharing everything about life and work, sharing joys and sorrows, every day we talked a lot and hugged each other to sleep. There were so many memories, so many that I couldn't count them all. Then we also had good news, we both liked boys, and also had boys. What could be better than that in life? After a while of marriage, you must be curious, what's the problem?

My wife's side: My wife is mostly fine, I'm satisfied. My wife is a little lazy but I'm lazy too so we're even. Whatever is mechanical, we leave it to the machine. The housework is divided equally, my wife goes to the market and I cook, my wife cleans the room and I clean downstairs, when everything is done, I go out. My wife's personality is upright and fierce, during arguments I always endure. Later on, my mother-in-law also had to endure my wife, I was not satisfied with this but had to accept that nature, couldn't change, no matter how we talked, we argued. There are right and wrong things but usually I always endure my wife, but this ratio has decreased over the years. My nature is patient and my wife is strong.

I like having a good wife but she is too fierce, my wife likes a good husband who is not a playboy but I am a playboy. We should have made this clear to each other since the beginning of our relationship, but when you love someone, you don't paint a beautiful picture or imagine good things. I regret it a lot, I should not have endured too many things from the beginning and said all the bad things clearly, who knows the outcome of the story would have gone in a completely different direction, that could have been better for both of us. If I have any advice for everyone, I think you should clearly express your likes and dislikes, don't keep it in or be careless because keeping it in your heart will eventually turn into a disease. Don't ask why, only those who have been married for 5 or 10 years will understand.

As for me: I like freedom by nature, gambling, smoking, drinking, all kinds of entertainment, boys and girls, I'm not into any of it. That means I can do anything, so I don't know what I'm into, but since I got married, I've been with her everywhere. I sometimes feel unhappy about this, but having a wife "has to endure", I often share this with my wife but it doesn't change anything, I have to report wherever I go, I come home early, that's fine, but coming home late is tiring for both of us because we'll argue. I was caught cheating once with a college girl, and we got divorced. I decided that I was just into having fun and erased her image without thinking, choosing my wife right away, at that time my wife and children were everything to me, so my wife forgave me.

Maybe after this forgiveness she loves herself more, I think that's right. After all, I'm not a very good person, also selfish. Currently, my family, friends, colleagues and we ourselves see that this love and marriage is still beautiful as a dream. For now, I'm good in all aspects, I give all the money I earn to my wife to spend, after work I come home to my wife and children, after dinner I watch TV with my wife and children, every few days I take my wife and children to the children's playground, on the weekends I go drinking with my wife and children with both families or friends. Occasionally I take my wife and children on a trip somewhere, I do anything to make my wife and children happy.

My wife wants to keep this happiness for one more day for our children, so she will do her best to keep it that day. When a woman loves her husband and children, they are truly great. I feel that I am not as good as my wife when I cannot give up my nature, just like she cannot give up her aggressive and controlling personality. My nature is to love freedom and want to have moments of freedom and comfort. I signed up to go to the gym in the morning, my wife insisted on going with me, I feel tired of this but can't change anything, that's how she is. Every time I'm sad, I think how nice it would be if I were still single, because then I could live freely in my true nature. I know it's wrong but I can't stop thinking like that. If I were single, I would never marry anyone else except for my wife, I know I would love her for the rest of my life.

According to VNE