Nghe An: The phenomenon of children running away from home, what is the cause?

Tien Hung April 21, 2020 09:05

(Baonghean) - Recently, in Nghe An province, there have been a series of cases of children running away from home. Families searched everywhere, panicked and reported to the police that they were missing, but when they found them, the cause was very trivial, mainly due to the family's lack of care and education.

The whole community is confused.

Do Luong District Police have just detained Nguyen Ngoc Khoat (born in 1989, residing in Lam Thao District, Phu Tho Province) to investigate the act of having sexual intercourse with a person aged 13 to under 16. Khoat was just extradited from Dak Nong after running away from home with a 14-year-old girl. During this time, the two had sexual intercourse many times.

More than a month ago, the family of Nguyen Thi T. (14 years old), an 8th grade student at Thuong Son Secondary School, panicked and reported that their daughter was missing. At that time, T. was sent by her mother to buy medicine, then did not return home. After many days of unsuccessful searching, the family reported to the police. During the investigation, through camera footage, it was discovered that T. had left the area with Khoat - a married man who had temporarily taken up residence as a worker at a local wood workshop.

Khoát (giữa) bị di lý về huyện Đô Lương để tạm giữ. Ảnh: CTV
Khoat (center) was transferred to Do Luong district for temporary detention. Photo: Contributor

Five days later, the authorities of Do Luong district continued to receive a call for help from the family of Nguyen Van Su, residing in Thuan Son commune, regarding the disappearance of his son, Nguyen Van H. (18 years old), a 12th grade student at the Do Luong District Continuing Education Center, for the past 14 days. The Criminal Police Department of Nghe An Police stepped in to verify and assist the family in the search. Do Luong police then had to ask for help from professional units of the Ministry of Public Security and the police of provinces and cities. According to the family, on the afternoon of March 12, H. left home and went missing. Up to now, there has been no information about this male student.

Meanwhile, according to the Criminal Police Department of Nghe An Province Police, in March, the unit received and successfully tracked down 2 reports of 4 missing people from the locality. In which, the cause was determined to be that the children left home to go to other localities for many days without asking their parents' permission. Accordingly, on the evening of March 13, a couple residing in Khanh Hop Commune, Nghi Loc District went to the commune police to report that their two daughters, both 10th grade students of the Cua Lo Town Continuing Education Center, went out together and suddenly went missing, and their families could not contact them.

Công an làm việc với gia đình 3 cháu đi lạc, bịa chuyện bị bắt cóc. Ảnh: CTV
Police work with the family of three children who got lost and made up stories about being kidnapped. Photo: Contributor

Dozens of officers and soldiers from the Criminal Police Department of Nghe An Province and Nghi Loc District Police had to search all over Cua Lo Town, Nghi Loc District and Vinh City but found no results. Surprisingly, a day later, the two children returned home by themselves. There, they confessed that they had invited each other to visit friends in Tan Ky District, about 80km away. The reason they went without telling their families was because they were afraid that if they asked for permission, their parents would not let them go.

Not long ago, a family in Vinh City was also shocked to announce that their 11-year-old son and his friend had “gone missing,” causing the local police to have a hard time searching for them. But a day later, the child’s biological mother from Thua Thien Hue Province called to inform them that the two children were in Hue City in normal health. These continuous “disappearances” were widely shared on social media, causing panic in the community. Some people were even worried, thinking that there was a situation of child kidnapping. However, in reality, most of the children ran away from home for trivial reasons, but caused a lot of trouble for the authorities.

There was a case where the children invited each other to go out but got lost for nearly 100km. When the police took them to the headquarters to take their statements so they could go home, they even made up a story about being kidnapped. After more than 2 hours in the car, when the driver stopped to go to the restroom, the 3 children escaped. At night, all 3 sat down to rest on National Highway 1A and fell asleep until they were discovered by the police. At this time, the children confessed that they made up the story because they were so scared.

Alarming situation

Lieutenant Colonel Vu Quoc Bao, Deputy Head of the Criminal Police Department of Nghe An Province Police, said that the phenomenon of minors leaving home without informing their parents of their whereabouts is a phenomenon that needs to be warned about early, because they simply think of achieving their immediate goals without thinking about the consequences.

Perhaps the children did not fully anticipate the dangers that lurked when they left home, nor did they understand the worries and insecurities of their parents when they saw their children suddenly disappear - something that had never happened before - so they acted impulsively. But in any case, this should not have happened, because dangers and traps can happen to the children at any time. Those risks could be being abused, abused, kidnapped, deceived... Therefore, when receiving a request for help from the family, the Criminal Police Department immediately issued a wide notice to take advantage of the search from the online community, relatives and friends.

Những thông báo tìm kiếm của Công an gần đây xuất hiện liên tục.
Police search notices have been popping up lately.

Dr. Duong Thi Thanh Thanh, Head of the Psychology Department, Faculty of Education, Vinh University, said that there are many reasons why minors run away from home without talking to their parents first. It could be because they are bored, because their parents scold them, because they do not get the desired results in their exams, or sometimes it is simply because of ridiculous reasons, such as not being allowed to play with their phones, or because they are too busy playing and get lost. What is more worrying is that some children, after running away, try to make up stories and lie to their parents. For example, in the case of 3 children who got lost from Anh Son district to Do Luong district, and were later discovered in Dien Chau district, they made up a story about being kidnapped, causing public confusion and disruption during the investigation.

However, the main reason why children leave home without permission is due to family reasons. Some parents lack attention, care, and education for their children; or care in the wrong way, in an imposing, stereotyped way, making the children bored, feeling suffocated, so they want to find a space of freedom. Some other parents may impose in the way they raise their children, leading to their children having free thoughts, being undisciplined and irresponsible towards themselves and their families. When they leave home without permission, they want to demonstrate their maturity and independence, or they may be running away from parental divorce, violence, and some other social causes. Whatever the reason, the increasing number of children leaving home without permission is an alarming phenomenon, fraught with many risks.

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