How are Vietnamese people 'helping' bad guys abuse their children?

'From ancient times until now, grandparents and parents often touch the private parts of little boys with the words: "Give me your 'dick'" without knowing that you are unintentionally helping bad people molest and abuse your child.

Many parents are worried about the news that a Vietnamese actor was arrested in the US for child molestation. However, a reader believes that every day, many parents are unknowingly helping bad guys abuse their children. That is Ms. Vi Nguyen, founder of the Living My Life Club, which specializes in sexual safety and supporting vulnerable people in the LGBT community. We would like to post her entire post:

In an advanced country like America, human rights are highly protected and, above all, in their eyes, even animals are protected, so child molestation and assault is an extremely serious matter.

In our country, public opinion has been condemning the news of children being raped and abused. However, in today's life, there are still some actions that our parents, grandparents, and relatives do without knowing that they are acts of child abuse.

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Specifically, from the past until now, grandparents and parents often touch the private parts of children (usually boys) and then tease: "Let me eat your "dick""; "Let me see if your "dick" is big?" and then innocently pull down the child's pants to see. Sometimes, neighbors also come over to play and touch with the reason: "We just want to cuddle you".

It is a mistake, a misunderstanding that you love but in fact you are unintentionally helping bad people molest and abuse your children/grandchildren. Have you ever listened and seen your children/grandchildren happily agree to those things? Once, twice, three times... we create a habit and unintentionally make our children victims of crime without even knowing it.

These types of jokes can easily make children impressionable and have bad behaviors. Children will pay too much attention to that place, which is not good for sexual development. Children who are used to being teased in this way will not know how to defend themselves when they are actually sexually abused. There are boys who quickly learn and apply it to their friends, becoming abusers.

Not long ago, in the apartment building where I live, people were talking about an elderly man (around 60 years old or older) molesting and attacking a boy under 14 years old in the elevator and was recorded by a camera. From the camera's perspective, the child was scared and uncomfortable, deliberately standing far away, but the man still approached him.

As the elevator door opened, the boy hurriedly tried to get out but was pulled back by the man and touched in his private parts. The boy's parents are foreigners and this was not overlooked.

When the police got involved, the man said he just wanted to pet and play, not intentionally. Therefore, you should listen to your children and look at their attitudes to know what they need and how they feel about what you are doing to them. That is also a way for you to protect your children from many dangers from strangers.

According to Vietnamnet.vn