The Secrets to Saying No to Adultery

Are you afraid of external attractions pulling you in? Are you afraid that you will not be able to control yourself and fall into the vortex of temptation? How you handle it will be the first thing to determine the happiness of your family in the future.

No one wants a broken marriage, the following tips will help you say no to adultery.

1. Think for the future

Just imagine the worst possible consequences that could happen if you had an affair.

The prospect of a broken marriage, abandoned children, economic instability or gossip about infidelity… is something you do not want.

That is the end result when you choose to cheat. Thinking about the future will help you control your emotions, the scenario you imagine may become a reality at some point.

2. Take advantage of temptation

Use temptation as a catalyst to increase affection for a stronger marital relationship.

Act as if you are having an affair with your spouse. Every intimate action and gesture at this time will bring new emotions to the couple's happiness.

Remember that outside feelings are only temporary, your feelings for your partner are what last forever. Don't trust in momentary feelings to lose yourself and your family.

3. Take time to talk

If you and your partner are having an argument, give each other some private time without being bothered by other things, to talk and reminisce about the day you both decided to build this home together.

4. Keep a cool head

Temptation can happen at any time, especially when you are having problems in your life and in your relationships.

These problems can be as simple as the difficulties you encounter when you have a new baby or work worries… All frustrations create cracks that allow temptation to creep in and destroy your relationship.

What you need to do is keep a cool head and not allow yourself to actualize the temptation from mere thoughts to concrete actions.

Maturity in thinking and reason is the most important key to help you overcome temptation and keep your family happy.

Finally, the above tips are just suggestions to help you "keep yourself" from temptation. The decision maker is still you. Be clear-headed to avoid family breakdown.