The long slide of a male student with a sick lifestyle
Despite trying very hard to pass the university entrance exam, after only the first year, Q fell into pleasure, debauchery, and a deviant lifestyle that led to a path of error...
At the end of August 2018, the Investigation Police Agency - Ba Dinh District Police, Hanoi initiated a case and prosecuted Bui Manh Q for the crime of "Theft of property". Bui Manh Q (born in 1994), in a northern mountainous province.
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"Raising bees in your sleeve"
According to the investigation agency's documents, although he was a student, with his liveliness and resourcefulness, after a period of applying to work as an employee at a restaurant in Ba Dinh district, Q quickly gained the trust of the restaurant owner and was assigned to be the manager.
As the restaurant manager, Q has the password to the restaurant's safe. Every day, the money from sales will be put in the safe by Q and transferred to the restaurant owner's bank account the next morning.
On July 29, 2018, taking advantage of his shift and knowing that the bank was closed on Saturday and Sunday, so the money collected would be kept in the store's safe until Monday morning, Q had the idea of stealing money from the restaurant owner.
At around 3:00 p.m. the same day, Q went into the management room and saw that no one was there, so he opened the safe and took out an envelope containing more than 45.2 million VND. After taking the money, Q closed the safe as if nothing had happened and then took the money back to his rented house on Duong Quang Ham Street (Cau Giay District, Hanoi) to hide.
In the early morning of July 30, Q returned to the restaurant, unlocked the management room and took another bag of money worth nearly 53 million VND. To erase all traces, Q used a screwdriver to remove the screws on the safe door, and also removed the hard drive storing the security camera, and hid it in a ditch near Nhat Tan bridge (in Dong Anh district, Hanoi).
On the way back to the motel, Q hid the newly stolen money in a wall crack at the beginning of alley 165/2 Duong Quang Ham street, Quan Hoa ward, Cau Giay district, Hanoi to avoid being detected.
After the incident occurred, upon receiving the report, the Criminal Investigation Department - Ba Dinh District Police coordinated with the police at the scene to investigate and clarify the matter. On July 30, Q was invited to the police station for questioning.
Using professional measures, the police quickly established the scene and the suspect who committed the theft. Knowing that he could not escape punishment, Q honestly confessed to the theft.
Consequences of a deviant lifestyle
During the investigation of the case, the police seized nearly 53 million VND stolen by Q in the early morning of the same day. Regarding more than 45 million VND, Q confessed to paying the debt to Mr. Le Minh H (born in 1997, in Cau Giay district).
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After working with the police, H voluntarily returned all the money stolen by Q to pay his debt.
According to the investigation agency's documents, Bui Manh Q himself was born and raised in a mountainous province in the North. Q's family has 2 sisters, Q's parents are honest and simple farmers.
However, after passing the entrance exam and studying at a prestigious university in Hanoi, the monthly allowance Q received from his parents seemed insufficient. In the bustling urban area, with so many temptations, the spirit of the young man from the mountain town was clouded. To show off, Q fell into a loose and deviant lifestyle.
While his friends were busy going to school, Q neglected his studies. During the day, Q slept soundly, and at night, he went to bars to meet and hang out with bad people. From then on, Q slid down and followed in the footsteps of those who made mistakes.
Few people would think that, from a young man born and raised in a gentle mountainous area like Q, but only after the first year of university, the entertainment spots and bad habits, bad habits, gambling "lottery"... have all gathered in this person. When he has no money, Q goes to look for a part-time job. When he plays too much, Q is willing to borrow money at exorbitant rates.
In addition to gambling, Q is also passionate about "alcohol and sex". Q not only falls in love but also has affairs with all kinds of "ladies and gentlemen" to satisfy his pleasure. Although he is a student, Q is also a "player" when participating in groups and associations on social networks (Facebook or Zalo...) such as: "Wife exchange, sex partner exchange", "Wife exchange, husband exchange association" or also known as "Some association - exchange of dishes" or "Swing association", temporary exchange of love rights"...
At the time Q was involved in this theft, he had a very pretty girlfriend who was also a student at a university in Dong Da district, Hanoi. Q's girlfriend had the same interests as Q, like partying, having sex in groups, and being sick. Therefore, Q's life, without relatives to guide him, was instead surrounded by a girl he called his "wife" who trusted him, but who supported his depraved and deviant lifestyle, causing him to fall further into the abyss, and then onto the path of error.