Why is Cuong Do La and Dam Thu Trang's wedding ceremony forbidden for children under 5 years old?
Cuong Do La and Dam Thu Trang's refusal to accept children under 5 years old at their wedding caused controversy.
After nearly 2 years of dating, Cuong Do La and Dam Thu Trang will hold their wedding on July 28. Since the announcement of the wedding, the 37-year-old businessman and his wife's refusal to accept children under 5 years old at the wedding has been the subject of much discussion.
Many critics say the 37-year-old business couple are overreacting. Some even say they are showing contempt for children.
Children under 5 years old are not allowed to ensure order and safety.
The reporter contacted the wedding organizers but they refused to answer. According to the organizers, refusing to receive children under 5 years old is not a serious and controversial issue. The couple wants to maintain their privacy and does not want the public to discuss the ceremony too much.
However, a source close to the bride revealed that not allowing children under 5 years old was actually to ensure the wedding ran smoothly and without any incidents, while also keeping the children safe.
Below the post ofZing.vn, many people agree with the decision of Cuong Do La and his wife. Reader La Thi Minh Ha thinks that bringing children to the wedding party is inconvenient for guests.
Another account shared their experience of having guests sit in cramped spaces and lacking food because many people brought children to the wedding. “During the ceremony, they were running around and looking bored. So it is reasonable to ask not to bring children,” this person wrote.
Some other opinions said that Cuong Do La's wedding will have the presence of many business guests and business partners, so he needs to ensure the solemnity of the ceremony. "The children cause trouble and their parents say that the children are still young and do not know anything," shared reader Toan Pham.
Countries are accustomed to restricting young children at public events.
In fact, not bringing children to important events has been around for a long time in other countries around the world. It is not difficult to find images of restaurants, cafes, entertainment areas or even offices with a separate area for children. Guests with small children are forced to move to this area to avoid disturbing others.
In the US and many other countries, when attending a wedding or any formal ceremony, guests carefully consider bringing children to avoid causing inconvenience to those around them.
Children selected to scatter flowers or carry rings are accompanied by adults to handle any problems that may arise. Children who cry will be taken out of the wedding venue.
In Korea, many restaurants, bars, and even weddings and festivals have signs that say "No kids zone". Korea is considered one of the most serious countries when it comes to the issue of how to treat children in public.
Many people were upset and angry when they were refused service just because they brought their children. Many people said they were offended. However, in Embrain's survey, the majority of Koreans still agreed with "No kids zone".
According to the survey results, nearly 75% of young Koreans support restricting children in some public places. More than 66% agree that restaurants and cafes should not accept children.
In response to the idea that restricting children from appearing in public places is discriminatory, 70% of those surveyed said this was an outdated view.
Survey ofEmbrainalso found that 65.8% of parents with children under 13 years old are concerned that their children may disturb others when visiting restaurants and cafes.
Many netizens believe that Vietnamese society needs to have a more open and civilized view on the issue of bringing children to public places. This is something the world has done for a long time but Vietnamese people have not yet approached.
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