Wife texting love to another man

I moved out of my house, feeling sad and disappointed. My wife texted me crying and saying she would stay with the kids and wait for me to come back.

I am 32 years old, have a wife and a little girl. We have a normal life like any other salaried person, except that I often have to go to work. A few months ago, my wife came back from a trip to the beach with her sister. That night, I saw a strange number texting her: "Last night I slept so well with you, tonight without you I miss you so much". I was shocked. The next morning, I asked my wife about this text message and she replied, "People have phones and they can text whatever they want", my wife did not admit that relationship. During the argument, I smashed her phone.

About a week later, I saw someone come to my coffee shop and come very often. Later I found out that it was the person who texted her and that they used to go to the same university. My wife said that he had a crush on her but she only considered him a friend and still went to the coffee shop to talk normally. During this time, my wife and he still texted and called each other, but after texting, she deleted all the messages and call logs with him. When I found out and reacted, she said she didn't want me to be sad so she deleted it.

Sometimes late at night he texted my wife saying he missed her so much that he couldn't sleep (because my wife was in a deep sleep, I read it). That situation continued until today, I couldn't stand it anymore, I asked her to cut off the relationship with him and she promised to do as I asked. I didn't believe my wife would do that, so I secretly investigated and found out about the love messages.Reading these messages, my heart felt like it was choking me, I called him and said some insulting words, he apologized, promised not to text or call my wife anymore.

At this time, I had moved all my personal belongings out, feeling sad and disappointed. She texted me crying and saying that she would stay with the child until I returned. I really don't know if she betrayed me or not? What is her real intention? I hope readers can help me. Sincerely thank you.

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