Teachers "shocked" because middle school students "give it all" in love and sex

"Modern students" think freely according to the lifestyle of social networks. If they love each other, they are willing to have sex without thinking about the consequences, especially students with special circumstances.

When referring to the issue of student love, a junior high school teacher in Ha Dong district (Hanoi) said: "Currently, the situation of junior high school students falling in love is too normal and happens everywhere. In fact, falling in love with students is sometimes a "source of pride".

Therefore, students freely express their love in class, such as hugging and even kissing each other while the teacher is lecturing. Especially with easy-going teachers, students are willing to change seats to hold hands, kiss and hug each other during class.

According to this teacher, nowadays, middle school students have equipped themselves with knowledge about sexual issues without needing advice from adults. If they fall in love and become pregnant, students should be calm and confident to "solve" the problem immediately without panicking or being afraid. There are students who are only in middle school but have had many abortions.

Middle school students falling in love is no longer a rare thing - Illustration photo.

Another teacher at Nam Trung Yen Secondary School (Cau Giay, Hanoi) said: "The situation of students falling in love, having sex and then getting pregnant has recently increased at an alarming rate. The main reason is still the lax management from the family. Many parents go to work early in the morning and come home late at night, not having time to talk and confide in their children. Meanwhile, they let their children use social networks too early without anticipating the consequences."

This teacher said that middle school students are at the "rebellious age" so they are quite stubborn, they want to assert themselves and need their parents' attention. This is a difficulty for many parents. Especially when they go to middle school, students do not study all day, teachers teach one subject each and it is difficult to closely manage them like elementary school students. Therefore, students will have afternoons or mornings off at home, parents will not control them so they will have the opportunity to go out and be exposed to many temptations.

In particular, many parents spend a lot of time on themselves, such as going to the gym, eating out with friends, leaving their children at home. Many parents are indifferent and take it lightly when they know their children are in love in middle school. Some parents even tell their children: "If love does not affect their studies, then love."

Ms. Nguyen Lan Anh (Dong Da, Hanoi) said: "Modern-day" students also think very openly according to the way of life of society. If they love each other, they are willing to have sex without thinking about the consequences, especially students with special circumstances such as divorced parents.

I have a friend who has been divorced for 3 years. His son is only in 9th grade but got his classmate pregnant. Then the two families resolved the issue "emotionally", the female student had to have an abortion and my friend had to move his son to Vung Tau to continue studying.

According to this parent, many students are now curious about "adult stories" they accidentally see on social networks and on television, so they use their savings to buy comic books with offensive content, describing "adult stories" in very detailed images. This is also very dangerous for children's psychological development.

Notably, not long ago, at a secondary school in Hanoi, a case occurred where a female student in grade 7 and a male student in grade 8 had sex in the school restroom. After asking, it was discovered that the male student said he would teach the female student in grade 7 how to do "adult things" like in the movies that the two students had seen before.

Through the reporter's investigation at the gate of another secondary school in Hanoi, when asked about the issue of love at school, a male student in grade 7 calmly admitted that many of his classmates had known love. Even when their parents bought them phones with internet access, these students gathered together to watch 18+ movies. That shows that nowadays, students are exposed to social networks early, which means poisoning their psychology.

Therefore, to limit the above situation, parents should spend time caring for their children, limit their children's exposure to social networks and always share knowledge about gender and sexuality with their children./.

According to tintuc.vn